#99 - Alicia Shields - Mrs. Arizona USA to Global Advocate
Hello Friends,
In this engaging conversation, Alicia Shields, Mrs. Arizona, shares her journey as a veteran mental health advocate and humanitarian. She discusses her platform focused on destigmatizing mental health for veterans, her experiences in crisis zones, and her passion for boxing and fitness. Alicia highlights the importance of purpose and service, particularly for veterans transitioning to civilian life. Through her work with the Box Out Project and Veterans Without Orders, she aims to empower communities and integrate mental health support into humanitarian efforts. Alicia's personal stories and resilience in the face of adversity inspire listeners to reflect on their own purpose and the impact they can make in the world. In this engaging conversation, Alicia Shields discusses the challenges veterans face when reintegrating into civilian life, the unique culture of first responders, and the importance of community support. The discussion also delves into the potential of psychedelic therapy for mental health, the development of mental health programs in underprivileged countries, and Alicia's multifaceted life as a nurse, athlete, and advocate for veterans. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding PTSD beyond combat experiences and the need for empathy and support for those transitioning from military to civilian life.
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Because it allows me to relax.
Hey, boys and girls, what's
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going on?
It's the Chris and Mike show and
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today we have a super special
guest, Mrs. Arizona in the mix,
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Alicia Shields.
Welcome to the show, Alicia.
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Welcome, Alicia.
Thanks for coming on.
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Good morning.
Thank you.
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Excited to be here.
Right, so we were talking before
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the show started because I
thought she was she was working
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towards becoming Miss Misses
Arizona, but she's actually
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already misses Arizona.
So egg on the face.
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Tell us a little bit about that.
How did you achieve that and and
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where do you go from here?
Sure.
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So Missus Arizona, it's part of
the worldwide pageant system.
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So I'm Missus Arizona USA and I
will be competing for Missus USA
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in July.
The state pageant is more of an
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interview process.
If there's multiple candidates,
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it's all panel interview.
You talk about what your
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platform is and then they decide
on there and then you spend the
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majority of the year working on
your platform and then you get
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to the big competition, the
pageant in July.
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Can you run just for the Arizona
or do you have to be misses
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something like the county or the
city or?
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So with this particular pageant
system, you're the state and
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then you if you become Misses
USA, then you compete at at like
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a worldwide level.
OK, wow.
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That's awesome.
That's really cool.
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Congratulations.
Thank you.
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That's a big.
Deal.
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So what's what's, what's your
platform?
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So my platform is Veteran Mental
Health.
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So I'm working towards
destigmatizing mental health and
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helping veterans who many have
PTSD get the resources that they
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need and get plugged into those
resources and get involved with
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organizations that will help
them work through their PTSD and
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continue to serve.
That's awesome.
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Right on.
So you help them not only while
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they're in the service, but when
they get out.
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Very cool.
Cool.
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Right on.
And your your father's a
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veteran, was a veteran.
Yeah, So my dad was killed in
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the Beirut bombing of 83.
He was a Marine.
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He was killed during his
service.
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So that my family's a Gold Star
family.
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Right on.
And then you're you.
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And when you talked about
Patrick, your husband, he was a
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Navy, Navy veteran.
Correct.
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Yep, he was a crypto tech in the
Navy.
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Really.
How long?
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How long was he in the Navy?
So he did like 4 years active
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and then four years reserve or
something like that.
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So eight years total.
Right Hon, Right.
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And just so people know, you are
in the, in the Phoenix area, you
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have two, two kids or three, I
forget, 3.
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Three, they're all grown up.
What's Yeah, they're growing up,
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right?
What are the ages?
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1513 and 11.
Wow.
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So when we, when we worked
together, I don't even remember
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how long ago that was.
They were just, they were all
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yeah, they were small.
Yeah.
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Yeah, that's awesome.
I can't believe I've got one
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that's going to be driving the
streets of Phoenix soon.
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Is that is that Giovanni?
No, Caitlin.
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Really.
Yeah, Why don't you get the girl
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driver first?
Giovanni might actually drive
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before her.
We'll see, really.
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Maybe.
Is she one of those kids that's
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not excited about it?
No, she's very excited.
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She thinks she's going to jump
in the car the minute she gets
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her license and drive to Ohio to
see my parents.
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Really fantastic.
Yeah, that'll happen.
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That would be fun, though.
You know, if I'm like, hey,
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where you going?
Ohio.
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Yeah.
For my first drive.
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Right.
Well, I mean, think about
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though.
That's like when I learned how
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to drive.
My grandmother taught me in the
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back, in the back streets of
between Pleasant Plains, IL and
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Abington's, which is kind of the
Quad Cities area.
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And it was like legit, it was
all backwood stuff.
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So you know, super wide streets,
county roads anyway.
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And she had this giant, I don't
know what it was like a green
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Oldsmobile or something.
And she taught me like, because
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you still had the like the
little tip of the car hood,
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right?
And so that tip of the car hood,
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I had to line it up with the
center lane and I had to be 10
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two.
There was one time where I
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brought this hand down and I got
Christopher.
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What a dark I'm.
Like I'm like what?
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She's like, hold hands on the
string wheel.
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Oh my goodness.
OK, I'm sorry.
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And Mama Kay said that the speed
limit was for experienced
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drivers, so you couldn't even go
the speed limit.
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You had to go like 5 miles an
hour under.
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Yeah, see, see like.
We're being passed by a
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Winnebago.
I don't care.
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We're safe.
Right.
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My grandmother taught me the
cruise control and I was allowed
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to go 5 miles over the speed
limit because it's oh.
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That's funny.
Because it's County Road.
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Yeah, yeah.
And that's where I learned too.
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Yeah, yeah.
I think what scares me the most
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is her, her self-awareness.
It's the funniest thing.
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She can walk into a room, be in
there for a minute, walk out and
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tell you what everybody was
wearing shoe color and
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everything.
But if somebody was walking
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toward her to kidnap her, she
would miss all the red flags,
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really.
So we're like, this is great
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that you're going to be able to
tell the police what the
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kidnapper looked like to the
detail, but you can't recognize
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that it's about to happen and
get away.
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Yeah, that's that's a conundrum.
I'm aware of that personality
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type.
I have a family member that's
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very much like that.
I mean, she's very creative.
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This is my artsy girl that's in
all of the musicals and plays,
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and she's just like La La la in
her own world.
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That's crazy.
So now when it comes to teaching
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her to drive, who's going to
teach her?
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I don't know.
We haven't battled that out yet.
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See, I would now number one, we
bought Jake a stick, right?
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Skyler's a different story, but
we bought Jake a stick which
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which prevented him from being
able to text and drive.
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Right.
Oh, that's smart.
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So I thought so.
I thought because, because
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years, a couple years ago, well,
actually before he got in the
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Marines, so how many years ago
that was now he, he ran into a
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CenturyLink truck in the HOV
lane on the freeway.
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And then I've, I've later found
out it's because he was messing
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around with his phone.
But when he first started
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driving, right, that was, you
know, because you had to use
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both hands and both feet like he
just couldn't.
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And that's why we did that.
So, you know, Skylar, that the
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phones weren't as prevalent when
she started driving.
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So it really wasn't a concern,
you know, even though it's kind
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of destroyed, I think 4/4
vehicles in her day, you know,
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back on what?
She's good now.
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But you know, that was a chaotic
time of life.
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But so hey, this is the
Christian Mike show.
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We're on Instagram, Facebook,
and YouTube.
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Make sure if you're just joining
us, go to those to go to those
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social media sites that give us
a follow, Drop us, drop a
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review, you know, subscribe to
the platforms because you'll be
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able to know when Alicia's show
pops.
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And there's several reasons why
we have her on the show #1 where
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she's Mrs. Arizona, which is
pretty legit, especially how
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many people like, went and
applied for that role.
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Did you do you know?
No.
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OK, so you can't can't be like I
was chosen out of 15,000
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contestants when?
You went to the final
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competition though, How many?
So it was.
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Yeah, Well, the one in July
there will probably be about 50
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of us since there's 50 states.
But the the the way that the
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state one is run because it's
panel interview, you do those
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separate with the panel so you
don't actually go up against
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like you're not standing in a
room with everybody.
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OK, you just go and sit down and
then you have 5 people drilling
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it basically.
Yes, yes.
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OK.
And now, so is it all scheduled
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times or like is everybody
backstage in a line or how it
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kind of explain how that works?
Yeah, so you actually can do it
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via Zoom.
So you're not even in the same
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physical location because the
panel is located in different
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locations.
So you know, to save on cost is
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my assumption.
It's.
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Easier to just now, right?
Yeah, exactly.
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Same concept.
Yeah, right on.
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So what do you do for fun there,
Alicia Shields?
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Oh, what do I do for fun?
So I've gotten really heavy into
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weightlifting.
I'm doing my first bodybuilding
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show in August.
Nice.
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I've noticed, I've noticed that
you're bringing the boxing and
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stuff which you know the neck
doesn't allow me to box like
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otherwise because I've always
wanted to work out.
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I think boxing is a great
workout, is it not?
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It's a wonderful workout.
I bought into a boxing gym
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because I love it so much.
Right on.
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OK, that explains that explains
the concert promoting then nice
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job.
Yes, I just thought you were
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there because you were you were
hitting me up like, oh, you
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should come workout, come
workout.
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And unfortunately it was the the
timing was when I have little
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man and then the whole the whole
divert of the the degenerating
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vertebrae thing.
I'm like, I don't, I don't, I
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don't think this is going to be
good for the Mac.
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You know, yeah, it's the gym I
was working out at and then I
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bought into it, so.
That's cool.
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That is cool.
So so what's the what's the gym
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called?
Because you might as well plug
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it.
Box out.
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Box out OK and it's in box.
Out in Chandler.
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OK.
In Chandler, yeah.
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And then we also have a
nonprofit called Box Out Project
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where we focus on kids, women's
empowerment and veterans.
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Nice.
OK, so let's talk.
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Let's because I want to, I want
to talk about the stuff you do.
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So let's, since we're on the box
out thing, let's talk about that
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program.
What is that?
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What's that involved?
What does it entail?
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How do you help people?
How to can people reach out to
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get more information?
All that kind of jazz.
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Sure.
So Box Out az.com is the website
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for the gym itself and we have a
couple pros that fight out of
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our gym and then we have a whole
bunch of amateurs and then we
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have people that just come to
the classes because they want to
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stay in shape.
All of our classes are coached
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by people that have been in the
circuit, so former pros, active
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fighters.
So it's really cool Box Out
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project.
We found that a lot of people
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that get into boxing are
experiencing a lot of other
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things, whether it's addiction
or some other depression, other
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mental health type things.
And there's a lot of evidence
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that boxing and working out in
general is really good for your
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mental health.
There's actually been there's
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actually been studies about how
non contact boxing.
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So classes help improve PTSD.
So Box out Project takes the
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things that I know from the
medical side of the world and
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then uses our coaches so that we
can take at risk youth and train
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them.
And a lot of bullying happens in
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the schools.
So teaching, teaching people how
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to deal with that and then
women's empowerment for obvious
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reasons and then focusing on the
veterans is really where my
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passion is.
And what's really cool is I'm,
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I'm finishing my psych NP in
July also, it's going to be a
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busy time of year, right?
And we're, we're putting a
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clinic in the back of the boxing
gym.
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So I'll be able to do therapy,
Med management right there.
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And it's called In Your Corner,
behavioral health and Wellness.
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That's cool.
So for people that don't know,
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because people don't know
because we didn't really drop
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your your life resume, Yeah, and
you just dropped something went
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over my head.
So why don't you back back up a
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little bit and just explain to
people who you are and your
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medical background and all that
kind of stuff.
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So that'll help understand as we
continue down the our
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conversation here this morning.
Sure.
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So I got into nursing a very
long time ago.
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I've been a nurse for many, many
years and I went the leadership
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route.
So I was a chief nursing officer
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for a while and I was able to
make some good impact.
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That's why I went the leadership
route.
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I wanted to be able to make
systemic changes and I was able
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to do that.
But then I started to get a
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little burned out with
healthcare.
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I started teaching for a while
and then I got really heavy in
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the humanitarian world doing
both nursing and planning and
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security, which planning and
security was great because they
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got to do all of the planning of
operations and then I could go
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on the operations as a nurse,
which was really cool.
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What I realized while I was out
there, not only is there a huge
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gap with veterans, there's a
huge gap with disaster survivors
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and mental health.
Yeah, see, that's kind of stuff
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that I've seen.
Like you'll, you'll go, you'll
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go to places and and you'll drop
down on Facebook.
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Like, you know, I don't remember
the last place you posted
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because obviously there's so
much stuff that's on socially,
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but you were in another country
and, and like, not so much
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always disaster cleanup, but
you're just there to help and
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and do your thing.
Yeah, Uganda was the last one.
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OK.
And what did you do in Uganda?
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So in Uganda, this was with
veterans without orders.
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We set up Sawyer water filters.
So a lot of people don't have
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access to clean water and it
leads to malaria and other
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gastrointestinal
gastrointestinal disorders and
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absenteeism from school.
So the kids aren't getting the
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education they need.
So Sawyer has developed these
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super easy water filters.
You take their filter, a bucket,
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and you have clean water for 10
years.
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So yeah, it's amazing.
So.
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We took is is Sawyer spelled
like Tom Sawyer?
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Sawyer, Yeah.
OK, cool, cool.
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Yep.
So we we took these Sawyer
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filters over to Uganda and
here's the really cool piece.
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So we don't want to be an
organization that pops in for a
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week and then disappears.
So the way that you're going to
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make an impact in another
country is to build resilience
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and capacity.
It's like teaching people to
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fish right, so they don't go
hungry.
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Exactly.
So we, we learn, we've learned a
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few things over the years.
First of all, if you give these
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filters to men, they're going to
go sell them because they can
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make money right away, OK.
If you give them to women, they
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realize this is going to last us
for 10 years.
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That's going to keep my family
safe.
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My kids survive, right?
Yes, so.
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Women there's there's the focus,
right?
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Men want to make the money for
the house.
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Women like, screw that.
Let's figure out how to make
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this established water for a
decade.
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Yes.
Then we can worry about making
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monies on another way because
we're taking care from what you
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need to survive.
Exactly, exactly.
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So, so we, we only train women
and girls on how to use these
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and how to keep them safe.
So, and then we took it one step
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further.
We partnered with a school in in
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Uganda called Levites Academy
and their high school.
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We have a group of high school
girls that have become wash
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ambassadors.
So washes, water, sanitation,
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hygiene and we have taught them
everything they need to know
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about these filters.
So if if anyone in the community
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is having problems with their
filters, they can just take them
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to these wash ambassadors and
say help and they they're able
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to troubleshoot.
So we ask you this.
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Yeah, go ahead, Mike.
How do they keep the men from
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learning their what their
knowledge is right?
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I mean, they can, they can learn
it.
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But if we were to just hand them
out to men and the women weren't
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involved, that would be it.
Yeah.
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So because we're engaging the
women they have, they have more
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ownership over the product and
they're not, I mean, they're
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they're not letting the guys
just take.
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Them this just becomes.
Their thing, right?
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This is our thing.
I was going to, I was going to
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say, you know, have a dude come
into the house and try to take
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that filter away from from the
wife.
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Yeah, that's not going to happen
because what kind of wife do?
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Yeah, yeah.
OK, you take my filter.
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Guess what you're not getting,
buddy.
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Yeah, that and no more clean
water.
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Right.
So I'm on, I'm on Sawyer's
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website.
So, so everything is like around
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50 bucks or less.
So there's just one that I
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pulled up.
It's a Sawyer water filter.
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It's called Squeeze water
filtration system.
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Is that a good example of what
you're using?
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Let me, I can, let me look at
their and I can tell you exactly
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which one.
But yeah, they're about 5030 to
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$50.00.
I mean, we we get a bit of a
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discount.
Because of the.
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What we're doing obviously, but
but yeah, we take, OK, so the
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squeeze water filtration that is
it's the same principle.
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But if you look at there's,
there's the filter in the bottom
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of the squeeze filtration
system.
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We basically take a filter that
very much looks like that and we
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buy buckets wherever we're at
and you take the bucket and we
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we put a hole in the bucket and
we put the filter in it.
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So then they they get 2 buckets.
So they take their dirty water,
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pour it into the bucket, let it
filter out, and then they have a
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bucket to catch the clean water.
OK, so on the basically on the
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bottom of of one bucket, you cut
a hole and you, you, you drop
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the filter into it, right.
So like, like for, for people
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that aren't grasping, like it's
like a garden hose, like a
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little piece of garden hose.
The water's going to travel
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through it.
The kicker is you have the
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filter that the water filters
through.
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So we have two Home Depot
buckets. 1 is full of water.
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You're going to pour it into the
other one that has the filter.
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And then where's that water
going underneath it?
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So they have a clean bucket.
OK, gotcha.
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Yeah.
So essentially.
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So essentially we have 3
buckets.
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Yeah, or they can.
They don't even have to use a
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bucket because it has a little
nozzle thing on it.
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So they can just once they have
that water in there, they can go
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ahead.
And okay, so you could set the
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bucket on the counter and have
the nozzle coming out the side
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instead of the bottom?
Yep.
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And then like on off like a
faucet.
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Yeah, kind of like one that
Yeah.
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And it's it's wild.
I actually scooped some water.
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So we also have a bag system.
I saw that on the site.
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Yeah, the gravity, the one
gallon gravity.
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Yes.
And we we use those when we're
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in the field.
I mean, we're not going to go
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and tell someone you should use
this if we're not going to use
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it.
Thank you.
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Right.
So we we were out in the field
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and we scooped up some water and
it was disgusting looking.
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It was brown, it had stuff in
it.
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Put it through the filter and I
drank it and it was the
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refreshing water.
So let me ask you, that's crazy.
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So does this work with all kinds
of water?
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Does it work with sea water?
So it doesn't desalinate.
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Okay, so that's why I asked,
because some people think I can
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go, you know, so it's more like
ponds and streams and stuff.
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Yes, yes.
Or, you know, if you catch.
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Water.
It has to be a fresh water
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source.
Right, right, right, right.
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OK.
Yeah, you don't.
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It's it's not a desalinator.
It's those are much more
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expensive.
That's.
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Why?
Yeah, that's.
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Do you follow Justin Wren at
all, Alicia?
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No.
The MMA fighter.
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Uh huh.
He spends time with the pygmies
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and what he does is he drills
wells because they don't have
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any.
They don't have a source of
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water.
So he goes over there and they
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actually drill the wells so they
can have water.
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Yeah, that's cool.
Because they were losing like 50
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to 100 people a day from
dehydration at one point.
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Yeah, that's terrible.
And one of the things we've
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noticed.
So we set these up with families
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and then the the way it's
supposed to work is like a
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community system.
Several families can use one
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filter.
But we also made sure the school
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is set up.
So all of the kids at this, at
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this particular school, Levites
Academy, not only do they have
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fresh water at school, we made
sure all of them have a filter
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at home.
So they're getting fresh water
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at home and at school.
And we have seen the results of
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that and absenteeism has
decreased.
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That's cool.
That is really cool.
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So when I hear when I hear that
is just people worry about such
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stupid shit that live here,
right?
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And when you listen to this
message, it's like all these
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people want is a clean glass of
water that makes their entire
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day, right?
Yep, absolutely.
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Just a difference in the way
that they live their day and the
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things that we find disturbing
in our day, right?
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Absolutely.
And then on top of on top of the
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water project, we also typically
do a clinic everywhere we go.
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So we take a couple nurses,
doctors and then set up.
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Set up a clinic.
How many times have you done
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this?
Oh, I've done it a lot.
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I mean, I've been all over the
world.
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I was previously with another
organization and I was in
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Ukraine during the war,
Guatemala.
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I mean, I've been all over the
place.
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We are, we are planning Malawi
as well as Niger this year and
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then we have someone in Zimbabwe
right now.
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Wow, so so this program again is
what out of that say it?
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Veterans without orders.
OK, Veterans orders.
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That's a lot of things.
Yeah, the out-of-the-box 1 was
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the local stuff.
Yes, yes.
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The box out project.
Yep.
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So Veterans Without Orders was
started about a decade ago.
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A really good friend of mine,
John Nanomaker, he was a
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Lieutenant Colonel, Colonel in
the army.
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And he started it a long time
ago and did things here and
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there.
And it wasn't until he retired
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that he was like, OK, I can put
more energy into this.
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At that point, we had both been
working together at another NGO.
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And when I left there, he was
like, all right, let's, let's
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blow this thing up.
And I was like, yes, let's do
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it.
So he's, his background is in
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civil affairs, which is the
humanitarian branch of the army.
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So he's got a lot of those of
that background and connection.
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And then with my background and
planning and security.
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And we just, we put kind of a, a
rock star team together.
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He did, he put this team
together.
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We have a board that's amazing
and all we want to do.
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We're we're an all volunteer
staff.
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So we don't get paid.
Every penny that we get goes to
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these operations and we just
want to get out there and make
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an impact.
When you guys go over there, do
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you have to, do they ask you to
come over or do you have to work
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that out with the government
before you go there?
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Because I know a lot of those
places are controlled by
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warlords, right?
There really is no government.
449
00:23:44,120 --> 00:23:49,120
Right, the answer is yes.
So sometimes we do get a
450
00:23:49,120 --> 00:23:53,600
request, like most recently we
got a request from Nazier to go
451
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:59,160
do some training.
So we can use that request to
452
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,160
then submit everything we need
to to the different government
453
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,880
entities.
But if there's a place that we
454
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,440
want to go and we have a
contact, we can ask them to
455
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,600
request us, but we're always
going at the request of
456
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,680
somebody.
OK, nice.
457
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:21,200
So does that provide, what level
of safety does that provide
458
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,800
while you're there?
Because I don't think people
459
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,880
understand how dangerous these
places are, right?
460
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,840
It's not like you're going to a
place that's got a 711 on every
461
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,960
corner and right, you know,
they're run by some pretty nasty
462
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,560
people, most of them.
Yeah, I mean, it really depends,
463
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,520
right.
Like we, one of the things I do
464
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:42,280
from the security side of it as
we're planning is character map.
465
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:47,240
So we look at who are the good
characters and bad actors,
466
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,840
right?
And then what are our chances of
467
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,960
encountering them and our
chances of having a problem with
468
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,160
them.
And then once we get all of that
469
00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:01,680
together, we also do a risk
analysis and everything's green,
470
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,760
yellow or red, right?
You're either risk is in the
471
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,640
middle or if you, I'll be
honest, I mean with my previous
472
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,520
organization when we did Ukraine
and when we were looking at Gaza
473
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,520
even you're looking at a whole
lot of red.
474
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,000
And then the organization and
the board needs to decide are we
475
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,720
willing to take this risk?
And then the individual
476
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,640
deployers have to decide, am I
willing to take this risk?
477
00:25:26,360 --> 00:25:33,320
So how many take the risk?
I think that there's a group of
478
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,760
US that are like, I'll go
wherever, and then I think
479
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,560
there's a group that's like I'll
go to Guatemala.
480
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,080
Right.
But I'm not going somewhere
481
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,000
where there's missiles flying
overhead.
482
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,680
Where do you fall in that group?
She just goes.
483
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,960
I was going to say she just
goes.
484
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,440
Yeah, I and actually, yeah.
I mean, in Ukraine, I mean, I
485
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,800
didn't tell my kids, but we had
missiles and drones flying
486
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,000
overhead.
I didn't tell them that because
487
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,040
I didn't want them freaking out.
Sure, of course.
488
00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:05,960
We our whole.
Our whole hotel would shake
489
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,200
because missiles would hit.
Oh my God.
490
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:09,960
OK, so let.
So that's the.
491
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,160
Hotel.
It didn't hit the hotel.
492
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,480
Well, yeah, but this is one of
those things why I wanted you to
493
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:14,920
come on the show, because you
have.
494
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:19,160
You have real world experience
inside the chaos umbrella.
495
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,520
So.
So talk about what?
496
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,040
Yeah.
And I'm sure you can figure
497
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,080
this.
I'm sure you can pull this out
498
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,320
of your brain.
Talk about one of the most
499
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,880
chaotic environments you've been
in and how you felt as just a
500
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,840
civilian watching all that
unfold.
501
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,560
Good one.
Good one, huh, That?
502
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,800
Is a great question so.
I would say there were a couple
503
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:46,000
of times when I was in Ukraine
that missiles hit very close and
504
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,080
one in particular was earlier in
the war.
505
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:55,800
So it was still kind of a newer
thing and it hit way EI mean it
506
00:26:55,800 --> 00:27:00,120
hit in La Vie, which were now on
the Polish border basically
507
00:27:00,120 --> 00:27:02,640
right.
We're very close to Poland and
508
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,480
just seeing the chaos
surrounding that.
509
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,800
And there were a lot of
humanitarians around and
510
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,640
everybody was just wanting to
help and do something.
511
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:16,520
And, and it was, it was very
interesting to see that
512
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,840
environment.
And then months later, watch a
513
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:26,040
missile hit very close and you
could see women walk faster, but
514
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,040
it didn't really change their
trajectory at all, really.
515
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,400
Like, well, because that became
a way of life.
516
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,000
Right, it's just normal.
Right.
517
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:37,560
It became normal.
And I was, I was staying in a in
518
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:41,600
a town where, you know, at least
12 hours a day we didn't have
519
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,720
power because they had power
outages in different parts of
520
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,280
the country during different
parts of the day because the
521
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:53,560
Russia had impacted the, the
energy system, right, right,
522
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,640
right.
So we would go, we would go eat
523
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:02,440
dinner at a restaurant and have
candlelight and they just kept
524
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,800
going.
They kept going.
525
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:09,520
We would walk by luxury stores
and they would still be selling
526
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,120
their products and using
generators, so seeing the
527
00:28:13,120 --> 00:28:16,520
resilience was unbelievable.
That's crazy.
528
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,760
So when let's go back to when
the first, the first missile
529
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,000
that hit when you were there and
what was the distance between
530
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,640
where you where it hit and where
you were at?
531
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,000
Do you know?
I mean, we actually went to the
532
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,400
site later.
It wasn't, it wasn't too too
533
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,520
far.
I mean it was probably 5 miles
534
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,920
or something.
It wasn't too.
535
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,200
It wasn't too far.
But it wasn't too too close
536
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,680
either.
But So what did you when it hit,
537
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,680
when it struck, whatever it
struck, what did you feel?
538
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,680
I mean, was it loud?
Did you just like tremble was
539
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,680
there, you know, rumbling earth,
you know, give because like,
540
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,520
I've never experienced that.
Mike's not experienced that.
541
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,120
And people that are listening
and watching to us, you know,
542
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,680
most people have not experienced
that in their lifetime.
543
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,680
Yeah.
So.
544
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:03,680
So kind of give us an idea from
a, from your five senses.
545
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,080
You OK this thing boom blows up
and then and you're feeling
546
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,120
what?
So let me let me tell you about
547
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,960
a a different strike that was
much, much closer.
548
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:18,840
OK, sitting in in our hotel
room, you, you know, you hear
549
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:24,280
the air raid sirens go off, you
hear commotion outside.
550
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,520
And then you don't always hear
the impact.
551
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,720
Sometimes you do.
I mean, I've heard impact.
552
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,400
And I've thought, oh, that was
an outgoing missile.
553
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:34,720
And it's like, oh, wait, no, it
wasn't.
554
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,720
That was incoming.
So sometimes you hear it,
555
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,600
sometimes you don't.
But then when you're in a hotel
556
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,320
and the whole hotel starts
shaking, you're like, Oh yeah,
557
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,760
that, that was close.
OK, so wow.
558
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,920
OK, so literally the building
shakes but it doesn't crumble.
559
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,840
Right, right, right.
It like like you can feel I it
560
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,680
would.
I guess it would be sort of like
561
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,200
when when you feel an
earthquake.
562
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:00,800
Yeah, feel like an earthquake
for.
563
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,360
Sure.
OK, so so you said sometimes you
564
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,680
hear, sometimes you don't.
So has there ever been one that
565
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,480
that has that has struck
something that was so loud that
566
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,840
it made your ears ring?
No, not.
567
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,080
I've never been that.
Close that my ears were ringing.
568
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,640
Yeah, yeah, OK, cool.
That's what I wanted to get a
569
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,640
dynamic to understand.
And then so you went back to the
570
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,240
impact that you that you
mentioned earlier there was
571
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,800
about 5 miles away.
What was the?
572
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:24,640
What was the?
The?
573
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,200
I don't, I don't want to say
crash site, but what was that
574
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,320
like?
So we actually were, it was near
575
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,640
the train station, and this was
a period of time when trains
576
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,320
were also being targeted.
So we weren't allowed to travel
577
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,080
via train at that point as like
that was an organizational
578
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:46,360
decision and everything was sort
of blocked off.
579
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,640
Like the police were like, why
are you here?
580
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,720
What do you want?
So they were, yeah, Yeah, it was
581
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,000
very, very, very secured.
Gotcha, gotcha.
582
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,560
And now, so people understand
trains over there, they like the
583
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,160
Amtrak or they like the old
school cartoon trains.
584
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:07,880
I mean, they're kind of old
school, but they're really cool.
585
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:12,800
They're like, OK, OK, you know,
you get in and you, you have a
586
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,480
little sleeping area.
So we did.
587
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,480
Later on, when the trains
weren't being being attacked
588
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,720
anymore, we were able to travel
via train.
589
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,920
And we found that was actually
the easiest way to go from one
590
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,080
part of the country to the
other, especially in the winter
591
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,120
when the roads were bad.
Oh.
592
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,360
I can see that.
So we would, we would take the
593
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:33,680
train.
It was, I think it was like an
594
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,120
18 hour train ride to where we
were going.
595
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,360
It was awesome.
Like we loved it.
596
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,920
We would have our MRE's, we
would cook our MRE's in the
597
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,120
train and eat our MRE in the
train.
598
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,000
The wildest thing happened
though, like, you know, you, you
599
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,480
Sir, you know, you see all this
stuff and you do all this stuff
600
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,080
and you're about to leave the
country to come back home.
601
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:59,040
And I'm, I'm laying there and
all of the sudden I felt like
602
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:05,240
this impact and smelled diesel
or train hit a truck that was
603
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,480
crossing the tracks.
I was like, what?
604
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,800
What are the odds, right?
You're not going to hit by a
605
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,600
missile, but you can run into a
truck, the railroad.
606
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,640
Tracks and they just kept going
right.
607
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,840
So we actually, we came to a
stop and we're like, man, we're
608
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,640
going to be here all day because
we're thinking from the US,
609
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,000
right?
They're going to rope this off.
610
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,360
They're going to do this.
NTSB shows up.
611
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,080
Exactly.
Well, they basically.
612
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:36,680
I I was looking out the the
window and one of the conductors
613
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,480
or whoever came and grabbed a
piece of the train that fell off
614
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,520
during the threw it right by
where I was standing and then we
615
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:48,680
were on our way again.
I was like, OK, that wasn't the
616
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,760
delay I expected.
That's amazing.
617
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,640
Hey, if you're just joining,
this is Alicia Shields.
618
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,680
She's an amazing human.
That's all kinds of things,
619
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,240
giving back.
She works with veterans.
620
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,480
She works with different
nonprofit organizations.
621
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,760
She's gone all around the world
to help people.
622
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:07,080
You can find us in this story on
Instagram, Facebook and YouTube.
623
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,320
Chris and Mike Show is the
easiest way to find us on all
624
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,720
those platforms.
So veterans without orders,
625
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,000
we're kind of talking about
that, which is basically a bunch
626
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,560
of volunteers.
You don't make a dime.
627
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,440
Are you all?
And you're obviously all tied
628
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,600
somehow to military, correct?
Because it's veterans without
629
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,560
orders.
For the most part, or first
630
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,200
responders.
OK, OK, so you have you all have
631
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,280
some type of medical military
background.
632
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,720
So when you're going to these
obscure places, you're not
633
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,560
you're not going in like a total
city slicker that doesn't know
634
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,840
what the Hell's going to happen.
And you got to have some type of
635
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,600
skill set in order to be
prepared because obviously, I
636
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,680
mean, have you ever been, have
you ever been like, like
637
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,760
detained, questioned, like
approached, attacked from, from
638
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,360
some of these places you've gone
to as a group, not individually,
639
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,800
but just as a group, Like, hey,
why are you here with guns
640
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,120
drawn?
Like, you know we're going to
641
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,680
blow you up if you don't back
up.
642
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,040
No, we've actually been pretty
fortunate.
643
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,480
We we try to definitely go about
things the right way.
644
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,600
We don't just show up uninvited
like we talked.
645
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,239
About earlier, I asked that
question.
646
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,480
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Because I've listened to a ton
647
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,960
of these stories with people
that do exactly what you do, and
648
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,000
that seems to be the right way
to do it.
649
00:34:17,199 --> 00:34:19,679
You mentioned a couple other
things that people would find
650
00:34:19,679 --> 00:34:22,239
interesting.
You usually have contacts there,
651
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:26,719
right, that have you have a
liaison between yourselves and
652
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,639
the government.
That or the warlords, or whoever
653
00:34:29,639 --> 00:34:33,679
the evil doers are, there's a
contact between you and them.
654
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:36,000
Yeah.
And we also don't like to just
655
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:41,040
send people in blind.
So we will, we try to send at
656
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,760
least a couple people ahead of
time to do a little bit of
657
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:48,400
reconnaissance to find out like
where, where are all of our
658
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,280
resources, what hotel do we want
to stay at, where are the
659
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:55,199
safest, safest areas to stay.
So that way we're not going in
660
00:34:55,199 --> 00:34:58,000
blind.
The guy that I mentioned that's
661
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:01,960
in Zimbabwe right now, he is,
even though he's distributing
662
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,640
water filters, he is also doing
a little bit of a Recon for a
663
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,640
bigger operation in the future,
OK.
664
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,560
That's awesome.
I think another thing that
665
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,760
people would find interesting is
how do you handle the logistics?
666
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,960
Like, you have to get all this
equipment there, right?
667
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:20,080
You're doing medical procedures
and administering medicine, and
668
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,560
that's a huge logistical
nightmare to get stuff from here
669
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:28,720
to there, right?
So we like to say that we can
670
00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:32,360
like hike into places and, and
do what we need to do.
671
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:37,040
So and and we don't travel with
a huge group.
672
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,000
Like when we went to Uganda, I
think there were like six or six
673
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,200
or seven of us.
So.
674
00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:45,520
Yeah, Yeah.
So we can just put put a
675
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,480
backpack on the front and the
back and go into wherever we
676
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,920
need to go.
Now, are there logistical
677
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,240
nightmares?
Absolutely.
678
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:57,840
We always find a pharmacy
wherever we go so that we can
679
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,880
get whatever meds that we need
sourced locally.
680
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,800
A lot of times that's easier to.
Aren't you actually asked about
681
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,040
being being detained?
Yeah, I forgot about this.
682
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,600
OK, right.
Now dies into that.
683
00:36:10,240 --> 00:36:15,000
Cool.
So I got to, I got to Uganda and
684
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,040
I had a ton of medication with
me that had been like donated
685
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,960
and stuff.
And they're like, well, you
686
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,440
didn't apply for this, blah,
blah, blah, whatever it was.
687
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,480
And I was like, well, we didn't
have to do that last time.
688
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,240
And they're like, well, our
rules changed so we need to hold
689
00:36:29,240 --> 00:36:31,840
on to all your stuff.
And I was like, I was like,
690
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,680
listen, I'm not leaving here
without this suitcase.
691
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,200
So I was like, if I, if you have
to lock me in that room with the
692
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,920
suitcase, you can, but you're
not touching this bag.
693
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:48,440
So we kind of went back and
forth and I, I called one of our
694
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,160
contacts there and I was like,
can you do anything?
695
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:52,440
He's like, just let them have
it.
696
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:56,760
And I was like, absolutely not.
So I was like, I can, I, I am
697
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,680
patient.
I can outfit them so.
698
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,640
Right on.
I waited for the next shift and
699
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,320
the next.
Why you're the right person for
700
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:05,760
the job.
Wow.
701
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,240
The next shift I was like, look,
what, what can I do?
702
00:37:09,240 --> 00:37:12,160
Because we don't, we don't do,
we don't do bribes, right?
703
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,040
But I'm like, what can I do to
get this out of this airport?
704
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:21,960
So, so we sat down and had a
great conversation and she's
705
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,320
like, well, do you have any
glasses?
706
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,320
I was like, I don't have any
glasses, but I have Tylenol.
707
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,800
I have this, I have that.
And I kind of went through
708
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,920
everything I had and what it was
for.
709
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,800
And I'm like, look, here's the
bottom line.
710
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:38,360
If you don't let me through with
this, I'm sending this back and
711
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,280
everyone will know that you're
the reason your people didn't
712
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:42,480
get help.
That's awesome.
713
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,840
And they finally let me go with
all of our stuff.
714
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,560
So right on.
That was smart.
715
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,080
Thing how?
How many, how many hours was
716
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,480
that detainment do you remember?
No, it wasn't.
717
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,280
It wasn't super like I think it
was like 2-3 hours.
718
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,760
So it wasn't super, super long.
I got there at the right time
719
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,600
where I didn't have to wait like
8 hours for the next shift to
720
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,280
come on.
Yeah, Can I, can I just drop
721
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,080
this?
I think you're just like, I know
722
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,920
you, but I don't know you.
I'm learning more about you and
723
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,080
and and you're quite the badass
like.
724
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,840
Fascinating.
And not to be and not like, I
725
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,960
mean, number one, I mean, it's
and I don't, I don't want to
726
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,200
come across here, but you're a
woman, you're in a foreign
727
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,800
country with a suitcase full of
medicine that's going to help
728
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,040
complete strangers that are in
dire need of it.
729
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,560
And you're just like, no, I'm
not moving.
730
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,360
You're not taking this bag.
I'll just sit here for three
731
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:35,040
hours if I have to.
So like I think if I was in that
732
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:37,880
situation, I don't I don't think
I would be as calm as I mean, I
733
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,400
could be wrong, but like that's
impressive that you just.
734
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,840
That's why I said she's the
right person for the job because
735
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,280
most people would have just
given that fucking suitcase up
736
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,360
and said I'm out of here because
I want to protect myself, right?
737
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,040
I have a family at home and.
Yeah, but she does.
738
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,240
She's married and has three kids
and she's going.
739
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:57,240
That's what I'm saying.
Giving of herself a very
740
00:38:57,240 --> 00:39:00,680
selfless human who's helping
other countries get but.
741
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,360
You know, I appreciate that on a
level most people can't
742
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,360
understand because I'm on 10
people, right?
743
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,240
I think that countries are
stupid.
744
00:39:07,240 --> 00:39:11,120
I think that allegiances to
flags are stupid.
745
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,200
And I'm like, we're all on this.
We only have this one planet,
746
00:39:14,240 --> 00:39:15,520
right?
We all have to live on it
747
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,760
together.
So the fact that there's people
748
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,360
out there doing what you do, I
can't appreciate that enough
749
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,120
because like Chris said, I don't
know if I have not only the
750
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:31,360
mental fortitude to do it, but
you know, just you're proving
751
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,800
that you are willing to go that
extra mile for people that you
752
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,200
don't even know.
That's amazing.
753
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,880
I, I think that our experiences
in life, like my experiences
754
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:47,360
when I was younger, definitely
led me to become the this person
755
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,440
that I have.
It shaped me for sure.
756
00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:55,960
I mean, when I I've traveled a
lot since I was young and I
757
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,200
often travel alone.
I I was kidnapped in Paris.
758
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,000
I was mugged in Venezuela.
So like I've had these
759
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:08,640
situations happen.
IA story that Chris, I don't
760
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:13,080
even know if if you know, I had
lost a son years ago.
761
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,200
We were.
Actually kind of kind of you
762
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,840
kind of alluded to that in our
time, but there was you never
763
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,680
shared the story.
And that's not somebody like
764
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:23,640
tell me the story, Alicia.
Yeah, but I know that, but I
765
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:24,920
don't know the details around
it.
766
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:30,520
So we actually got trapped in
the desert of all places for six
767
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,720
days.
And I almost didn't make it out
768
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,880
either.
It was Death Valley.
769
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,640
OK, OK.
But all of these things like
770
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,920
that's the worst thing that can
happen to someone losing your
771
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,200
child.
And I don't, there's there's
772
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,520
nothing that anybody in any of
these countries can say or do to
773
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,360
me that is going to be worse
than that.
774
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,760
So it's like, what do you, what
do you got for me?
775
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,600
Because I've been through
health.
776
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:58,520
So.
Yeah.
777
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,720
No, I, yeah.
And I I get that for sure, but
778
00:41:01,720 --> 00:41:03,520
that puts.
It into perspective for.
779
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,280
Sure, but you are, I mean,
legitimate what you do and you
780
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,360
voluntarily do it.
It's not like you're getting
781
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,280
paid.
It's not like, I mean, I, I like
782
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,520
to call things life resume.
Like what's your life resume?
783
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,600
Like all the things I've done in
my life that Mike's done and
784
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,440
you've done, It's you, you're
building your life resume.
785
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,920
So when, when you're at the end
of your life, because we're all
786
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,720
terminally ill and you're
sitting there reflecting back on
787
00:41:22,720 --> 00:41:25,320
your life, you're going to have
just this epic, this epic
788
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,400
journey that you can sit back
and reflect on, which I think is
789
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,400
fantastic.
So which is leading me to this
790
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,400
question, are you, are you
taking notes?
791
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,320
Are you journaling?
Are you going to put this pen to
792
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,000
paper and release a book at some
point in time that just for all
793
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,400
the things you do?
Because again, you should.
794
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,480
I, I knew about some of this
stuff, but I didn't realize how,
795
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,960
how in depth you are as a human
with all of this volunteering
796
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,680
and giving back and providing
help and, and you know, building
797
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,680
countries so they can survive.
I mean, that's fantastic.
798
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:02,360
I mean, I do write write some
stuff I journal here and there.
799
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:06,680
It's probably not as organized
as it should be.
800
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,600
I should probably start putting
it in in one spot instead of 10
801
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,200
different spots.
Or get somebody to help you do
802
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,640
that, because I'll tell you what
I see in you is you're a doer.
803
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,320
You're not a sit down and
reflect on what I've done,
804
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,560
right?
You're thinking about what am I
805
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,600
going to do next?
You're you probably have a five
806
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,520
year plan, a 10 year plan and a
tomorrow plan, right?
807
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,680
So you're always doing it.
If you get a ghost writer or
808
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,480
somebody that can help you
organize those thoughts, I love
809
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,920
stories like yours.
I've listened to literally
810
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,240
thousands of hours of podcasts
with people just like you, which
811
00:42:41,240 --> 00:42:44,720
is what inspired me to want to
do this with Chris is just what
812
00:42:44,720 --> 00:42:48,960
he said. him and I have done
things that most people haven't,
813
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,760
and you've taken that to a whole
nother level in that you spread
814
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,040
it out to the world, right?
You've been to places that most
815
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,360
people, some of them they
haven't even heard of, right?
816
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,960
Let alone know where they're at.
If we just, if we tell.
817
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:03,480
Us.
That's fine.
818
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,320
That's true though.
That's amazing.
819
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:11,360
So, OK, so we've talked about
veterans without orders.
820
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,680
What's what's, how do you guys
raise the money?
821
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,040
Because obviously you must be
nonprofit, right?
822
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,840
It is.
We are a nonprofit and we are
823
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:24,960
completely donor funded.
Veterans Without orders.org if
824
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,680
anyone feels so compelled.
We'll include a link when we
825
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:32,120
reduce the show for sure.
And, and one of the things that
826
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:35,280
I've I've brought to the
organization because of my
827
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,840
mental health.
Sure, passion.
828
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:42,080
We really wanna start make.
Okay, first of all, let me back
829
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:45,400
up.
Every or every operation that we
830
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,280
do is named after a fallen
service member.
831
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,720
That's.
Cool, that's really cool.
832
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,480
And the coolest thing we do
before the operation, we
833
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,560
actually do an honor call with
that fallen service members
834
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:01,920
family.
Fantastic.
835
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:07,160
And we learn about them what
what made them tick, what drove
836
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:10,160
them crazy, what was their
personality like.
837
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,560
In their That's really cool.
And it's so cool because when
838
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,320
we're on the operation, like
little things will happen and
839
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:21,760
we'll be like, that was that was
so and so, so, and then
840
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,480
afterwards we'll, you know,
we'll follow up with the family
841
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,360
and say, Hey, these, these
things happen.
842
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:32,160
We think it was your loved one,
but we also affix stickers with
843
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:36,360
their name on it.
So like in Uganda, it was the
844
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,760
Staff Sergeant Kendall Ivy
project.
845
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,720
So all of the buckets that we
gave out have his sticker on
846
00:44:42,720 --> 00:44:43,840
him.
Nice.
847
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,280
So it's really cool.
That's beautiful.
848
00:44:47,240 --> 00:44:51,880
So with all that said, we want
to really integrate mental
849
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:56,040
health into these operations, so
it's not just taking random
850
00:44:56,040 --> 00:45:01,920
people to go give clean water.
That's important, but let's take
851
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:06,960
some veterans that lost their
sense of service and purpose
852
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,280
when they left the military and
work through a PTSD program.
853
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,680
And at the end of that program,
the final thing they do is go do
854
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,800
humanitarian work and serve
again and give back again.
855
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,960
That was actually going to be my
first question about this side
856
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,480
of it.
What is that the top problem
857
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,480
that you see when people come to
you on this side of it for help
858
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:33,120
is that they just no longer have
a sense of being and I don't
859
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,280
know what to do with my life and
or is it the PTSD side or both?
860
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,680
Or what's the top problem that
these people come to you with
861
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,280
that are no longer in the
military?
862
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,800
It just can't seem to function.
Yeah.
863
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:48,920
So having worked with, and this
is I'm, I'm not Speaking of the
864
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:53,320
VWO volunteers in at all.
I'm Speaking of all the
865
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,800
volunteers that I've worked or
if they're all the veterans I've
866
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,560
worked with.
So you got a couple things.
867
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,520
You got one that sense of loss
of purpose, right They were
868
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:02,240
doing.
Amazing.
869
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:04,240
Yeah.
I was gonna ask.
870
00:46:04,240 --> 00:46:05,160
So when?
OK, so go.
871
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:06,520
I would sort of.
I just wanted to make sure you
872
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,280
explain that because not
everybody's gonna understand
873
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:09,400
what you're saying.
So continue, please.
874
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,160
Sorry for.
Yeah, so they were doing, doing
875
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:16,560
amazing things, protecting their
country, protecting other people
876
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,440
in other countries, serving
people in other countries.
877
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,480
And then you get back and all
the sudden it's like, boom,
878
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,400
figure out your life, you're on
your own.
879
00:46:24,720 --> 00:46:26,920
And it's like, what do I do from
here?
880
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:32,120
So that sense of, of loss, PTSD,
like you mentioned, that's
881
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,400
that's huge.
I mean, people, people that
882
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:40,040
served with my dad, and this was
in the 80s, they're still waking
883
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,920
up with nightmares.
Oh.
884
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:44,400
Yeah.
So it it's like it just, it
885
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,520
doesn't go away.
And how do you cope with that
886
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,920
and how do you deal with that?
And then there's also another
887
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,200
group and I've encountered
patients like this.
888
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:59,560
As a matter of fact, you went
from carrying a gun and killing
889
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:04,880
people with no repercussions to
now you can't even yell at
890
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,720
someone that makes you mad,
right?
891
00:47:06,720 --> 00:47:11,520
So, so it's a huge like that
power you.
892
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,520
That really puts it into a
visual, right?
893
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:18,200
Yeah, I mean, they had the power
to take someone's life, right?
894
00:47:18,240 --> 00:47:20,760
And now they have they have no
power.
895
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:24,200
Or just like you said, like an
officer that was used to
896
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:28,360
screaming at an entire platoon
all the time is now in an office
897
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,880
setting or something and he's
trying to do the same thing, or
898
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,200
even a factory or whatever.
Yeah, I never thought of.
899
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:35,720
I never thought of that.
That's a that's.
900
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:41,360
A Well, I've heard those stories
inside a job that I've had.
901
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,400
We'll just leave that open.
But yeah, you know, that guy
902
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,320
used to be in the military, so
you better watch him because,
903
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,560
you know, he's carried that side
of it into civilian life.
904
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,760
And people who were never in the
military don't know how to react
905
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,360
to that.
And all of a sudden he's in HR
906
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,000
and he doesn't understand what
happened.
907
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:01,320
And that's a very great point to
put it into perspective for
908
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,480
people who are listening, these
people trying to reintegrate
909
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:09,800
back into civilian life for 10
years, 15 years even, you know,
910
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,920
a four year stint or whatever.
That's a long time to do the
911
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:17,960
same thing over and over again.
And and that's go ahead, Chris.
912
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:23,400
One of the one of the things I
love about VWO is we're not
913
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,160
suiting time.
I mean, I'm wearing our shirt
914
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,200
right now.
This is.
915
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,920
This is what we go out in.
I mean, we're not, we're not all
916
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,560
dressed up.
We don't get fancy.
917
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,960
We go out there to get dirty
and.
918
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,400
I love that.
And we, we are, we are
919
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,200
professional when we're in front
of of people, right?
920
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:48,080
But it's, it's not always,
sometimes the language that when
921
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:51,280
our group gets together may
offend people that haven't been
922
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,560
first responders or in the
military, or sometimes the
923
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,280
conversation may people might
not like it.
924
00:48:56,280 --> 00:49:01,400
It's not, it's not, you know, so
that's why we, we, we recruit a
925
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:05,040
very specific group of people
and they need to know like
926
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:10,640
we're, we're not what you may
expect and we may not be your
927
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,680
cup of tea.
And that's OK.
928
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,600
Yeah, yeah, because you're there
to do one thing, and that is to
929
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,760
provide aid and whatever however
that looks like, because it's
930
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,800
different everywhere you go.
But your sole purpose is to give
931
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,960
back and establish something.
So then you can move on to the
932
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,360
next.
The next, I don't want to say
933
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,520
adventure, but the next you.
Know yeah, the next operation
934
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:31,880
so.
What I what I was going to jump
935
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,040
in a minute ago.
You're talking about veterans
936
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,960
and how when they come out, so
Jake is Jake's a Marine.
937
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:42,160
You knew that, right?
So he's gone back and forth a
938
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,920
lot about re enlisting or
getting out, releasing, getting
939
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,840
out type of things.
So, so as of late, he's, he's
940
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,720
back on the thing while I'm
going to re enlist for, for
941
00:49:50,720 --> 00:49:52,400
another four years, which gets
him the 12.
942
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,240
And then he's like, you know,
might as well just stay for the
943
00:49:54,240 --> 00:50:00,320
other 8 and hit the 20.
So from a father's standpoint,
944
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:01,600
right?
And because my son's a marine,
945
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,640
because I could never get the
military because the asthma, I
946
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:05,120
tried 3 branches.
They all said no.
947
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,440
So once, you know, when Jake
realized he right.
948
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:12,120
So I, you know, the, the, the
pride is just leaks out when I,
949
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,000
you know what I mean.
And when I introduce Jake, you
950
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,280
know, I'll drop, you know, this
is Sergeant Dunham and he's like
951
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,080
stop dad, because he doesn't
like that, right?
952
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:22,760
He's he's a very humble Marine,
like you wouldn't you know, he
953
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,960
doesn't, he doesn't like to tell
Lowe's, Hey, I'm a Marine.
954
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,720
I wanted my discount.
You know, he just doesn't do any
955
00:50:26,720 --> 00:50:30,080
of that.
So I didn't realize it, but in
956
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,600
in talking with Nikki the other
day after Jake and I had this
957
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,480
long conversation at night, like
10:00, he starts texting me like
958
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:36,720
he does.
And then so we're talking about
959
00:50:36,720 --> 00:50:40,720
all this and he wants to go back
and to, to the depot and, and,
960
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,600
you know, go through drill
instructor school again and all
961
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,080
that kind of jazz.
And Nikki being the mom, she's,
962
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,080
she has the vantage point that I
don't have because I'm the dad,
963
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,320
right?
And we know mothers are
964
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,880
different than fathers, right?
Because of the I would hope so.
965
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,760
Right.
Well, because Jake's Jake's kind
966
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:03,000
of a mama's boy, right?
So her so, so when I was right,
967
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,160
so when I was sharing this with
Nikki, she, she just, she got
968
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,120
like irritated.
She was like, well, that's, you
969
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:09,200
know, how, you know, that's
right for him.
970
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,960
I was like, I don't know what's
right for him, but I, he needs
971
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,680
to make his own choice.
And her fear is kind of what
972
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,840
you're talking about, which I
didn't get until you just
973
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,400
started describing it.
The fact that he's going to go
974
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,160
from being this this dude that
had when he's 18 years old, he
975
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,600
had $1,000,000 credit card at
his disposal because he's
976
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:29,400
accounting supply and logistics,
right And then when he hit.
977
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,000
Podcast it's great too.
If people want to go listen.
978
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,320
It was.
Episode 9.
979
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,120
I think he talked about that.
Right.
980
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,640
And he actually talked about in
our text exchange about how
981
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,280
going from a completely
structured, secured lifestyle,
982
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,760
he doesn't know what the real
world's going to be like to him
983
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,880
now because he has had that
structure.
984
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,320
Now see, he's been in long
enough.
985
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,640
He sees that fear, right?
Right.
986
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,520
So, but that's what I got to do
exactly.
987
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,360
And I wasn't, I wasn't thinking
of that in my conversation with
988
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:01,520
him because why would I?
And then when Nikki spun it and
989
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,320
like, legit, she was, I thought
she was mad.
990
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:04,920
And I'm like, it's not my fault.
I'm not.
991
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,280
She's like, no, no, no.
I'm just, you know.
992
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,480
But you know what I think is
important for your not to
993
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,520
interrupt you, but you know,
what I think is important for
994
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:16,960
people to hear in your message
is it's that's where the father
995
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,040
and mother, the true dynamic of
that is important.
996
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,600
Because when I was going to move
to Arizona, my mom was doing the
997
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,240
same thing.
She was freaking out being a
998
00:52:25,240 --> 00:52:26,880
mother.
No, you're not going, you're
999
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:28,360
going to stay right here where I
can keep.
1000
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,680
And my dad was like, he's an
adult.
1001
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:34,480
You got to, you know, somebody
needs to be that voice of reason
1002
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,600
of we've done the best we can
and it's time for him to make
1003
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,560
his own decision, right?
Right.
1004
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,920
I think Nikki's fear is.
That's important.
1005
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:47,040
Yeah, Nikki's fears he if he if
he stays 20 years, then where is
1006
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,040
he when it comes out?
He'll be 38 years old.
1007
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,440
So she's fearful of, of
occupation, things like that.
1008
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:54,440
And I'm like, well, he's going
to why he's still in there.
1009
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,520
He's planning on finishing
school and stuff like that.
1010
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,440
Jake doesn't like school, so
he'll take a class and then his
1011
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,600
mindset changes because he just
doesn't like school.
1012
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:06,560
I appreciate that, right?
I like to learn when I want to
1013
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,400
learn when I want to learn it.
Right.
1014
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:11,360
But I can see the dynamic that
Alicia shared is like, OK, so
1015
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,760
here's here's let's say Jake
stays for 12 years.
1016
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,960
He gets out when he's at the end
of his 12 years, it's like what
1017
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,840
kind of what kind of benefits
does the military give him as
1018
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:21,520
far as pension and medical,
right?
1019
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,680
I mean, he's going to have
access to the VA for the rest of
1020
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,080
his life.
But we all know what a fiasco
1021
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:29,200
the VA can be, right?
I'm sure you see that with
1022
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:32,120
Patrick on a personal level,
Alicia, as well as what you do.
1023
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,600
But I wasn't look at it from
this, from that standpoint,
1024
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:38,120
because I'm like, I'm like,
well, if, if he goes for 20
1025
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,520
years, that's a career.
So you, you, you finish your
1026
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,640
career, you get your pension,
you get your military and your
1027
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,560
medical benefits.
And then you haven't, you're
1028
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:48,480
only 30 years old.
So guarantee income, right?
1029
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:53,320
And I have a client that that
actually his father did the
1030
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,680
exact same thing Jake's doing.
He got in the military in, in
1031
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,200
the 60s.
He was accounting, supply and
1032
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,680
logistics, spent 20 years doing
that, got out, got a job at the
1033
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,320
city of Phoenix doing the exact
same thing within the last three
1034
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:04,760
years, retired from the city of
Phoenix.
1035
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,000
So he had double pensions,
double mail, you know, blah,
1036
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:10,120
blah, blah, blah.
But Nikki's concern is just
1037
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,840
that, like, where's is there
pensions still available in the
1038
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:15,760
military for 20 years?
What's the medical like?
1039
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,600
And when he gets out at 38, is
he going to have that concert,
1040
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,760
that issue that you just
described, Alicia, which is
1041
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,840
like, oh, here I am.
I'm in control of this entire,
1042
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,680
you know, what is it right now
he's doing reservist.
1043
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:32,000
So when the reservist comes come
into Pendleton, he handles all
1044
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,000
of it like he handles all the
supplies and stuff.
1045
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,960
So it's, you know, it's a big,
it's a big job and he's
1046
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,560
structured and he doesn't have
to pay for room and board and
1047
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,080
he's got his own place to live.
He's, you know, it's all those
1048
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:46,600
things that are tied into being
a service member.
1049
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,720
And then when you get out now
what?
1050
00:54:48,720 --> 00:54:51,320
Which I never thought of because
again, I couldn't, I couldn't
1051
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,280
get in.
But that just that struck me,
1052
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,360
which is why I wanted to kind of
back up and talk about that
1053
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,440
because it's it's, it's a real
thing, obviously, because you
1054
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,080
brought it up and, and Nikki's
concerns are validated now, so
1055
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:06,160
I'll let her know that.
But he just, I didn't think
1056
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,400
about it because you always
think PTSD when you get out of
1057
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:09,720
the military.
OK, they did some, they did
1058
00:55:09,720 --> 00:55:11,640
some.
And everybody ties PTSD to
1059
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,960
active service in, in, in a, in
a, in a chaotic environment.
1060
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,240
But that's not always
necessarily true, right?
1061
00:55:18,240 --> 00:55:21,720
You can get PSD because a drill
Sergeant lights you up and
1062
00:55:21,720 --> 00:55:23,680
scares the bejesus out of you.
You don't have to react.
1063
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:25,320
And all of a sudden you're
having nightmares for the rest
1064
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:27,560
of your life because this dude
was this close to you, you know,
1065
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:31,920
just shredding you.
So there's all forms of PTSD,
1066
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:33,880
not just that's just combat
zones.
1067
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:38,120
I think that no matter when
somebody gets out of the
1068
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,360
military and it doesn't matter
if they served for four years or
1069
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,040
or 20 years, there's, there's
grief.
1070
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:48,960
You, you go through the stages
of grief when you get out and
1071
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:52,600
part of it.
I have known people that hated
1072
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:57,200
their time in the military but
miss aspects of it because the
1073
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:02,360
the camaraderie.
I mean, there is relationships
1074
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:06,240
are formed in the military that
people don't understand.
1075
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:10,920
And, and the, the closest I can,
I can liken this to when you've
1076
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:17,760
done CPR on a patient, you have
a different relationship, I
1077
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:21,520
guess, as a group then, like
those of us that work together
1078
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:24,840
during COVID and we were
intubating patients left and
1079
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:29,200
right and we're, we're working,
you know, 70 hours a week or
1080
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:33,280
ridiculous hours.
We have an understanding that
1081
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:37,680
when we try to talk to people
outside of our that did that,
1082
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,200
they don't get it.
No.
1083
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,680
Well, that's kind of what him
and I describe of being in a
1084
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,880
band together.
You know, it's nobody's ever
1085
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,960
going to know what it's like to
go up and stand in front of
1086
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,280
hundreds or thousands of people
with three other guys and think
1087
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:55,320
that, you know, you're all that.
And it the only reason it works
1088
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,920
is because the four of us have a
hive mindset, right?
1089
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,640
It's the same concept, just in a
different environment.
1090
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,480
There's certain things that
you're going to do in your life
1091
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:08,280
that the only other people that
understand it are those that
1092
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:13,040
experienced it with you, right?
Can't explain that to anyone.
1093
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:15,720
For sure.
And and that's the same, I think
1094
00:57:15,720 --> 00:57:17,480
it's the same with sports too,
that you're alluding to, because
1095
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:20,680
when you absolutely like Jake
played high school football and
1096
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,840
you have that bond with those,
with those kids that he played
1097
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:23,920
football with for the rest of
his life.
1098
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,840
It's the same hive mindset of a
team.
1099
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,040
Right, when you win
championships, when you do
1100
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:30,760
whatever you have that you, you,
there's that bond.
1101
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:32,760
It's same like with the Marines.
Once a Marine, always a Marine,
1102
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,920
right?
And you're the Marines, you
1103
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,160
know, the Marines are the ones
that kind of you look down on
1104
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,880
all the other branches because
they're Marines like they're,
1105
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,120
you know, they're going in
before anybody.
1106
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,600
It's, it's, it's one of the
things that that Jake shared
1107
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,000
with us when he got out of boot
camp when he graduated, it was
1108
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:53,360
is you're a Marine first period.
Your job is to go out and kill.
1109
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,840
That's it.
That's there's no other way to
1110
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,400
sugarcoat it.
So even though he wasn't, he's
1111
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,120
not infantry.
That's not his MOS.
1112
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,000
He still had to go to the
infantry school because you're a
1113
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:05,800
killer 1st.
And that's what you talked about
1114
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,320
earlier.
Alicia, you, you, you in the
1115
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,640
military like Chris Kyle, the
American Sniper, right?
1116
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:15,160
I mean, the dude legit one of
the greatest, you know, military
1117
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,160
snipers ever to walk this face
to earth.
1118
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,360
And you made a really, really
valid point that's stuck with
1119
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:23,280
me.
Like you get a pat on the back
1120
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:27,320
for taking somebody's life, and
then you're going in in in QT
1121
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,480
and your car doesn't work
because the machine's broken and
1122
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,160
you start yelling at the clerk
behind the counter.
1123
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,920
You're in trouble.
Like, but wait a minute.
1124
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:36,080
Or smashing a gas pump.
Or Yeah.
1125
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:37,800
Right.
But wait a minute.
1126
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,680
Look what I did for this world.
Look what I I protected you.
1127
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:41,280
Now I'm up.
They.
1128
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,080
Told me to actually blow the
button.
1129
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,840
They actually told me to blow
another human being's head off.
1130
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,200
And that's what I did, right?
I mean, that became happenstance
1131
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:51,560
for him.
To her point earlier, that
1132
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:55,480
became normal life for that.
You know, snipers, their job is
1133
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,480
to shoot people that could never
see them, right?
1134
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,240
And they take pride in that.
Yeah, but that.
1135
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,440
How do you reintegrate back into
civilian life when that was your
1136
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:09,520
job for the last four years,
eight years, 10 years, 12 years?
1137
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,880
Come on.
Well, and I think that's where
1138
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,600
it's so important if you're
thinking about getting out and,
1139
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:18,960
and like for Jake especially,
have a plan.
1140
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:20,760
Who are you going to volunteer
with?
1141
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:23,720
Where, where are you going to
get that camaraderie that you,
1142
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:27,080
you got when you were in?
And that's, you know, when we,
1143
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:32,080
when we go out onto these
humanitarian operations, it's
1144
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:37,920
that same kind of camaraderie
and the, the, the guys and women
1145
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,680
that go are like, Oh my gosh,
it's just like I was back in the
1146
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,720
military.
Like they get that sense of that
1147
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,120
feeling again.
So it's really good for them.
1148
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:50,560
And that's where if we can
incorporate the mental health
1149
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:56,520
into it, then they can come out
of the operation an even better
1150
00:59:56,640 --> 01:00:00,000
person than when they started
the the process.
1151
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:04,240
So along those lines, that's a
great segue into a thought I
1152
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,400
just had because you're in the
medical field as well.
1153
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,560
What are your thoughts on?
Because I've listened to a lot
1154
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:15,880
of shows on this too, like
psychedelics, MDMA, therapy.
1155
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:18,880
Thumbs.
Up for the people who are just
1156
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:20,760
listening, I got 2 thumbs up on
that one.
1157
01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:23,520
OK.
So kind of kind of talk to me
1158
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:28,760
about that because I know it
from a recreational user for,
1159
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:31,080
you know, a couple times
allegedly.
1160
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,520
Yeah, so.
How did they do do that and what
1161
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,440
are your thoughts on it?
Yeah, I think there's a lot of
1162
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:39,160
benefits.
So ketamine therapy is really
1163
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,520
big right now.
I fully plan on doing ketamine
1164
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,120
therapy when I am done with
school.
1165
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,800
OK, so so explain, explain to
people what ketamine?
1166
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:47,760
Thesa because kind of not
everybody's going to as you go
1167
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:51,080
through this explaining things
because yeah, I'm not even
1168
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:52,880
familiar with that.
Yeah, you're.
1169
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:57,000
Good Ketamine is a a medication.
People say it's the horse
1170
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:01,520
tranquilizer.
It can be used during certain,
1171
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,520
certain procedures.
It can be used to kind of make
1172
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:08,320
you forget things or or not so
much forget things, but be
1173
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:11,160
really calm and relaxed during
certain procedures.
1174
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:17,400
If somebody is very, very
anxious, we could give them give
1175
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,200
them some ketamine.
If they're in a lot of pain, we
1176
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,560
can give them ketamine.
There's a lot of reasons you can
1177
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:28,760
use it, but it also there's
ketamine therapy where you take
1178
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:33,080
ketamine and it kind of gets you
into this spot mentally and then
1179
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:37,200
you can access parts of your
memory that that maybe you've
1180
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,200
you've blocked off.
So if you're doing therapy and
1181
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,080
the other the other all the
other drugs work like this as
1182
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:48,160
well.
And if you're, if you're doing
1183
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,160
it under control, a controlled
situation and have somebody
1184
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:54,760
trained who's walking you
through it, you can really
1185
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,760
unlock some things that you
experienced and haven't
1186
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,480
processed and be able to process
those things.
1187
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,280
OK.
With Academy and therapy, what
1188
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:07,000
kind of time frame that's that
road you're going down there?
1189
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:08,600
What kind of time frame are you
talking?
1190
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,960
Because I know they like to use
the term micro dosing, right.
1191
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,160
So for the people that are
listening, they're they're not
1192
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,080
taking people in and just like
shooting them up with a bunch of
1193
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:19,480
drugs and getting them super
high.
1194
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:24,160
And you're talking, is that what
you're talking about is like the
1195
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:27,400
micro dosing part of it where
they're doing it a little bit at
1196
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,120
a time for an extended period of
time?
1197
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,040
Yes, yeah, OK.
Yeah.
1198
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:32,720
And then you would, you know,
you come at it.
1199
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:34,640
It's just it's another form of
therapy.
1200
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,080
So just think about therapy.
You don't just go once and then
1201
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,840
you're done.
You keep, you keep coming back
1202
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,440
and you keep working, working
through those issues.
1203
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:49,960
There's I actually have a, a
friend he serves with veterans
1204
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,880
without orders.
Also, he was a Marine, OK, He he
1205
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:56,040
did one of the ayahuasca
retreats.
1206
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:57,880
Awesome.
OK, I'm familiar.
1207
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,640
With those as well, he said.
I mean, life changing, yeah.
1208
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,920
So.
I used mushrooms for the same
1209
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:06,440
thing twice in my life.
So I reset my brain 2 times
1210
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:12,240
about 7 years apart.
OK, And I went into it with an
1211
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,800
intention.
You know I'm going to fix these
1212
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:18,360
problems, right?
OK, so for those, those of us,
1213
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:24,640
those of us that don't know what
is an IO, why'd you say iOS?
1214
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,280
Ayahuasca.
Ayahuasca.
1215
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:33,000
No idea what that is.
It's another psychedelic.
1216
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:36,880
OK, so are you familiar with it?
I'm not.
1217
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:45,000
OK, so ayahuasca is an actual
drink that the shaman make.
1218
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:50,240
It was invented in South
America, Brazil if I remember
1219
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,800
right, but definitely in South
America.
1220
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:57,760
They figured out a way to
extract DMT, which is
1221
01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:00,560
dimethyltryptamine.
Your brain produces that.
1222
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,520
They think that's a lot of what
happens when you dream, right?
1223
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:06,200
Your brain dumps all these
chemicals into your body.
1224
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:09,880
Some of them keep you still, but
some of them they're pretty sure
1225
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,800
enter you into the dream state
and DMT would be one of them.
1226
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:18,200
The shaman figured out how to
make a drink out of this and
1227
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,640
make that DMT experience, which
is very short when taken by
1228
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:22,960
itself.
I've done that too.
1229
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:27,000
It lasts like somewhere around
20 minutes, 10 minutes, 20
1230
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,320
minutes, but it's super intense.
Like you leave reality.
1231
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:32,600
I'm staring at you guys right
now.
1232
01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:36,440
And if I had done some DMT in a
couple minutes, all the sudden
1233
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,880
all this would fade away and I
would be in a different
1234
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:42,120
universe, right?
That also resets your brain.
1235
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:46,080
It's super cool if done right
and under the right
1236
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,280
circumstances.
And all these things Chris likes
1237
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:52,680
to say, and I like to pair it,
we're not advocating drug use.
1238
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:58,800
We're advocating positive drugs
under controlled environments,
1239
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,840
right?
But ayahuasca will change your
1240
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:05,120
life.
So if you're a smoker, if you're
1241
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:10,000
a horrible drug user, like
addicted to opiates, these are
1242
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:13,560
things that this is a drug that
will actually reset your brain,
1243
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,160
just like any psychedelic will
if done in the right
1244
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,240
circumstances.
You can come out the other side
1245
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:21,040
a different person.
That's crazy.
1246
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:25,120
The nice mellow human being that
you know me to be today doesn't
1247
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:29,200
want to do mean by people when I
used to be closer to the person
1248
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,760
she described, where it would be
more like barking orders at
1249
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:34,560
people.
That changed after those two
1250
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:37,680
experiences.
That's how interesting reset the
1251
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,480
way I thought about the world.
Yeah.
1252
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:41,800
So with your mental health that
you're that you're pursuing now
1253
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:45,840
that that degree in that when
you go to places like Uganda,
1254
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,560
OK, and you're, you're
establishing, you know, water,
1255
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:52,840
whatever, are you going to
instill that as part of what
1256
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:54,680
you're doing?
Yes.
1257
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:58,160
So I've actually had had two
countries so far.
1258
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:05,280
People from two countries.
I know many have asked me to
1259
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:07,920
help them in implement a mental
health program.
1260
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:13,640
So as you can imagine, medical
in a lot of places is difficult.
1261
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:16,800
Now think about mental health
here, it's hard to get access.
1262
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,360
So now go to a third world
country.
1263
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:22,280
How hard is it there?
So kind of what our plan is and
1264
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,320
we are, I'm, I'm working on
building this program and I'm
1265
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:29,120
hoping to start it in Uganda and
then like Lake Guatemala next.
1266
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:31,680
So see how you said Uganda out
of nowhere?
1267
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:39,520
We're going to build a well, I
already have like a shell
1268
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:46,120
program where we can teach
anybody some basic mental health
1269
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:49,280
skills, almost like mental
health first aid.
1270
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:52,040
OK.
And then we're going to take
1271
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:56,320
community members and teach them
to become peer counselors.
1272
01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:00,480
All right on.
So that way they have somebody,
1273
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:02,600
granted it's not a therapist,
they're not going to get
1274
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:06,200
medication, but they have a peer
counselor that has basic skills
1275
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:09,720
that can walk them through
certain situations, right?
1276
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,000
And we know with lots of people,
they just need to talk through
1277
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:13,160
the problem.
They need to talk through the
1278
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,360
trauma, talk through the chaos,
purge and get out of their
1279
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:18,400
system, work through it from a
verbal standpoint with somebody
1280
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,360
that you can trust that's not
going to go down the street.
1281
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:24,120
Oh, Chris is a whack A mole
because you have that trust and
1282
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:27,960
you're helping them get through
that, that trauma that they hold
1283
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:29,400
and carry.
That's brilliant, Alicia.
1284
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:34,760
So the we've kind of, we've made
like a shell program because you
1285
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,040
can't do A1 size fits all
because the cultures are so
1286
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:40,040
different.
So we have like a shell program
1287
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:44,240
that we will change and tweak
based on the culture we're going
1288
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:45,360
to.
OK.
1289
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:48,640
So obviously, so that's the
importance of understanding the
1290
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,960
culture walking into which goes
back to how you do all the
1291
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:55,280
planning of actually getting
into the the country that you're
1292
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:57,080
going to.
So that's part of your research
1293
01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:58,160
obviously now.
Yeah.
1294
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,480
Do you speak?
Do you speak multiple languages?
1295
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:02,640
You just pulled that right out
of my head.
1296
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:06,640
Like do you have AI?
Was going to say, do you have a
1297
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:08,640
translator?
Do you speak multiple languages?
1298
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,240
We actually we do.
We do have translators when we
1299
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,520
go places, interpreters, But I
do, I mean, I speak Spanish.
1300
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:20,399
I've, I've spoken Spanish since
I was young and then when I was
1301
01:08:20,399 --> 01:08:23,520
over in Ukraine and Poland, I
spent so much time over there.
1302
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:27,120
I actually got a Polish tutor
and so I do speak some Polish
1303
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:30,359
now and then.
I love languages so everywhere I
1304
01:08:30,359 --> 01:08:33,840
go I at least pick up the basics
and learn how to introduce
1305
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:35,880
myself and ask people how
they're doing.
1306
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,479
I love them too, but I'm
horrible at all of them.
1307
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:42,960
Yeah, I'm, I'm on, I'm on day
670 on Duolingo learning
1308
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:43,399
Spanish.
He's.
1309
01:08:43,399 --> 01:08:46,399
Doing good with Spanish.
Manamo crystal ball, don't be a
1310
01:08:46,399 --> 01:08:50,680
star, don't be a * El Bano.
I mean, I did a whole better
1311
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:52,640
than that, but you.
Did a whole paragraph on one of
1312
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:53,279
the.
Podcasts.
1313
01:08:53,399 --> 01:08:54,680
Yeah, I did.
It was great.
1314
01:08:55,279 --> 01:08:57,520
Yeah, that's.
The I said Ola and he rattled
1315
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:00,520
off a whole paragraph and I'm
like, that's the best I can do.
1316
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,760
So, Miguel.
Miguel.
1317
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,399
Hey, if you're just joining us,
this is the Chris and Mike.
1318
01:09:06,399 --> 01:09:08,800
Sure, you can find us on
Instagram, Facebook and YouTube.
1319
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:11,399
Give us a follow up, give us a
like and drop a review on all
1320
01:09:11,399 --> 01:09:13,200
those platforms because that's
how we grow.
1321
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:14,560
We're talking with Alicia
Shields.
1322
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:17,040
She's an amazing human.
Veterans without orders is
1323
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:20,640
something she does the box out.
What is the box out?
1324
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,439
Box out project.
Box out project and that that
1325
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:27,600
helps veterans as well.
And now the box out project does
1326
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:29,240
it.
Is it just veterans as as open
1327
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,560
to to kids, families, women's
fathers, everything?
1328
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,479
Are the three.
Three areas that are our main
1329
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:39,160
focus are at risk youth, women's
empowerment and veterans.
1330
01:09:39,399 --> 01:09:41,600
OK, cool.
And So what and box out is a
1331
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:43,720
gym.
And as she talked about earlier,
1332
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:46,200
in case you just join us, you're
actually you're actually trained
1333
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:50,319
by either active or retired
fight pugilist, right?
1334
01:09:50,319 --> 01:09:52,920
I mean, they're they're somehow
they were in the lifestyle as a.
1335
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,680
Boxer in the circuit.
Right.
1336
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:57,440
So you're actually getting real
world training, not just some
1337
01:09:57,440 --> 01:10:00,000
guy who's like, I want to teach
boxing today because I played
1338
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:01,600
knockout when I was a kid.
Yeah.
1339
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:04,720
Been working out at the Y since
50.
1340
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:08,200
Yeah, right, right.
So her life resume also includes
1341
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,280
the fact that she's she's been a
nurse for God knows how long.
1342
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:13,680
She's working on getting another
level of that, which is mental
1343
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:16,000
health, to help with mental
health aspect and all the things
1344
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,800
she does.
Anything else you want to talk
1345
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:20,720
about?
She's misses Arizona, USA.
1346
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,000
Oh, she is misses Arizona.
She's forcing out of.
1347
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,320
I just forget that because, you
know, there's all these other
1348
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:27,080
things.
So yeah.
1349
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:30,160
I know she's an amazing human
being, but she's also misses
1350
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:31,880
Arizona, USA.
She's a woman.
1351
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:33,040
They like that stuff.
Right.
1352
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:35,760
And she's and she's, she's an
avid runner now because we've
1353
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:37,520
been talking a little bit.
She's doing the Marine Corps
1354
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,720
Marathon in October.
Yeah, right.
1355
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,520
Which is funny.
Because I hate running.
1356
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,120
Where do you have time I.
Like.
1357
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:49,440
You make me feel like a lazy,
horribly lazy human being.
1358
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,920
Well, I I wish I.
Could have seen my.
1359
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:58,000
So I have a competition coach
for for the bodybuilding show,
1360
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,200
right?
I wish I could have seen his
1361
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:03,520
face when I messaged him and was
like, hey, by the way, I'm
1362
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:06,160
running the Marine Corps
Marathon because those are such
1363
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:08,880
polar opposites.
You're not supposed to do that.
1364
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:13,120
Well, and yeah, and see, that's
because I've ran Nikki and I've
1365
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:15,560
done probably 60 half marathon
since 15.
1366
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:20,680
There is a fine line between, I
mean, bulking up muscle wise and
1367
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:22,200
running because it contradicts
itself.
1368
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:24,720
Absolutely.
Because, you know, it's just
1369
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:28,080
it's like like she doesn't Nikki
likes when I have more bulk like
1370
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:31,840
I have now as opposed to when
before I broke my my head, my
1371
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,320
stress fracture that I was, you
know, I could get up tomorrow
1372
01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:36,440
and go run 10 miles without even
thinking about it, right.
1373
01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:41,440
But I was more lean and fit.
But she likes, she likes where,
1374
01:11:41,440 --> 01:11:43,480
you know, what I'm standing for.
Although I can see your chest,
1375
01:11:44,480 --> 01:11:47,680
but you, but when you run you,
you lean it away.
1376
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:50,080
And if people don't understand
the whole concept of running,
1377
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:51,960
you're basically putting your
body in shock when you're
1378
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,160
running a half marathon or a
marathon because your body
1379
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:57,240
doesn't know what to do.
So it starts retaining all the
1380
01:11:57,720 --> 01:12:00,680
all the food inside you because
they know that you're going
1381
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:02,360
because of your training.
Do you know you're going to
1382
01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:05,760
starve your body for an X amount
of time?
1383
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,840
And while doing so, you're
punishing your body for X amount
1384
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,840
of time, which is why it's so
important to hydrate and diet is
1385
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:14,400
so important.
So I can see where your
1386
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:17,880
competition coach was like what
you're going to do that?
1387
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,480
But are you?
Is it going to help you find a
1388
01:12:20,480 --> 01:12:22,520
balance though?
Yeah, for sure.
1389
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:24,600
And, and kind of what I've been
doing because I have to do a lot
1390
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:28,240
of cardio every day anyway for
the competition, but it's
1391
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:31,520
usually usually elliptical or
bike or, you know, something
1392
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,160
like that.
But I've just turned all my
1393
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:38,880
cardio into running.
So I try to run about four times
1394
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:41,920
a week.
I'll do four or five miles most
1395
01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:44,080
days and then I'll do a long
run.
1396
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:48,520
So I'm I'm not like killing
myself with the running where
1397
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:51,680
like people that are running
1015 miles every day.
1398
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,240
I'm not doing that and.
We were never like that either.
1399
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,400
When Nikki and I were training
for all our rushes that we did,
1400
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:00,600
it would be basically at least
at least a 5K every day.
1401
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:03,000
We'd have a day off and then
we'd have a long run on Saturday
1402
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:04,840
or Sunday.
So if Monday through Thursday,
1403
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:07,680
we're at least, you know, 3 to 5
miles, I would end up doing more
1404
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,480
because that's just, you know,
overachiever.
1405
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:12,720
And then the Saturday, whatever
it was, you know, the first, the
1406
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:16,040
first day would be, you know, 3
miles and you just build it and
1407
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:18,840
you build it and build it, build
it until all of a sudden you're,
1408
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,760
you know, your training runs,
you know, 14 miles that day.
1409
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:24,000
But your body's accustomed to it
now.
1410
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,800
And, and it's as much as it can
be, right.
1411
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,120
But with the bodybuilding, I
asked, but that's why I asked.
1412
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,120
So is he going to help you find
a happy meeting?
1413
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:32,760
Because the bodybuilding's in
July, August.
1414
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,040
August 2nd.
August.
1415
01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:37,520
OK.
And the and the and the My
1416
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:42,920
birthday, October.
Yeah, so I'm, I'm like measuring
1417
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:46,960
my obviously I do my weight all
the time and then body fat
1418
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,840
percentage, but I also measure
my, my measure my thighs,
1419
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:54,840
measure my arms.
And we, we make sure I'm not
1420
01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:59,200
like losing too much anywhere,
making sure I'm staying
1421
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:02,360
hydrated, upping my car, my
carbs as needed.
1422
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:08,920
So yeah, he's definitely, we're,
we're making changes as needed.
1423
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:11,880
Cool, do you do any supplements?
Oh yes.
1424
01:14:12,440 --> 01:14:14,200
You know, not everybody does.
That's why I.
1425
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:14,600
Asked.
Yeah.
1426
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,520
No, I mean, I'm all natural.
I'm a natural bodybuilder.
1427
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:21,600
Oh, no, I wasn't thinking.
Yeah, yeah, I just, I was just
1428
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,880
meaning like from a healthy
standpoint, like I just, I
1429
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:26,880
start, right.
Like I just, I just started
1430
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:30,880
doing a hemp works supplement,
my mushrooms in it for energy
1431
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,000
and vitality.
And then I take these little
1432
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:36,520
healthy gut gummies, sea Moss
gummies once a day because it
1433
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,240
helps with the gut health and
things like that.
1434
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,760
So I'm not super into everything
either, but for what you're
1435
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,880
doing, that's why I asked that
because you obviously there's
1436
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:47,680
got to be, you know.
Yeah, so I believe everybody
1437
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:50,720
should be on creatine whether
they lift or not because of the
1438
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:54,240
brain benefits.
So creatine is so good for
1439
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:56,600
people.
So I definitely take creatine,
1440
01:14:56,880 --> 01:15:03,000
amino acids, magnesium, zinc at
night.
1441
01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:05,480
I started taking ashwagandha
root at night.
1442
01:15:05,480 --> 01:15:09,720
I feel like I sleep better.
Magnesium I might have already
1443
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:12,520
mentioned.
So I I do I take AI take a quite
1444
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,360
AI take quite a few.
I do collagen drinks in the
1445
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:19,400
morning.
Yeah, OK, yeah.
1446
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:23,120
But yeah, now now with with the
kids and and the hubby now is
1447
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:25,520
does Patrick just sitting on the
sidelines watching you do all
1448
01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:27,640
this stuff and just be like,
what the hell, When do you
1449
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:29,880
sleep, woman?
Yeah, sometimes, but.
1450
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:32,600
We.
Actually, we, we worked out.
1451
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:37,080
We worked out together the other
day and he's like, now listen,
1452
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:39,520
don't think that this means I
want to start bodybuilding.
1453
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:48,560
So he, Giovanni, I wish he would
start running with me.
1454
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:53,600
He's like, I don't.
So the trick, the way we got
1455
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:55,920
Jake to run with us is is he got
in trouble one day.
1456
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:58,600
So his punishments we had, he
had to go do the race with us
1457
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:00,320
the next day.
OK, nice.
1458
01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:02,480
OK.
And he was so pissed off.
1459
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:04,160
He beat everybody.
Wow.
1460
01:16:04,440 --> 01:16:06,040
He was like.
Sticking that one in your back
1461
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:06,840
pocket.
Right.
1462
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:10,000
He was like 10 years old at the
time, but legit he beat every
1463
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:12,600
single person in that race.
It was like 21 minutes for his
1464
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,440
very first 5K.
And I'm, I mean everyone.
1465
01:16:15,440 --> 01:16:17,320
I'm not.
Just out of share everyone.
1466
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:21,160
Like we were, we were, we, we,
we weren't in front, but we
1467
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:22,480
were, you know, where we
started.
1468
01:16:22,480 --> 01:16:25,560
And legit he won first place
overall.
1469
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,040
And I'm like, dude, you need to
run.
1470
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:29,120
You need to run now.
Like, come on.
1471
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:31,040
And then, you know, he would do
a little bit now and then he
1472
01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:35,080
probably did, I want to say 1520
races, 5K's with us and placed
1473
01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:36,880
in every single one of them.
And then he's like, he's just
1474
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:39,440
done running.
I'm like, seriously.
1475
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,200
Because as you know, as a kid, I
couldn't run.
1476
01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:45,880
I had asthma so bad that I was
on the way to the hospital every
1477
01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:47,720
single week.
It was that I had a breathing
1478
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:50,840
machine at home.
I had, you know, Quibrin and and
1479
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:53,680
all these other weird asthma
medications that they just, you
1480
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:55,480
know, and Arizona's on the worst
state for that.
1481
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:59,560
So as a child being able to run,
I couldn't experience that
1482
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:00,720
right.
I didn't hit that till high
1483
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:02,760
school and I grew out of it.
So for him to be 10 years old
1484
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:06,720
and run for the first time ever
run a 21 minute 5 Cam like holy
1485
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:07,600
shit son that's.
Crazy.
1486
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:09,680
Right.
And he can still do it.
1487
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:12,560
Like a couple years ago he
texted me and says I just did a
1488
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:14,560
6 minute mile Dad, I'm like, OK,
I'm coming for you.
1489
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:17,120
And at the time I was, I was at
7:40.
1490
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:19,800
So it took me two years to get
there.
1491
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:21,840
But I ended up doing
back-to-back at Orangetheory
1492
01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:25,240
Fitness, two classes back at
that at 555, each class for a
1493
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:27,520
mile.
And then I ran, went outside in
1494
01:17:27,520 --> 01:17:30,000
557.
So I'm like, OK, I got you son.
1495
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:32,960
So here's my thing with that.
Because.
1496
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:37,440
I, when I did my first 10K
runners are a strange breed,
1497
01:17:37,440 --> 01:17:38,760
right?
I don't consider myself a
1498
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:44,200
runner, but whatever.
I first 10K, I've run plenty of
1499
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:47,440
5K's and everyone's at the
starting line and this guy's
1500
01:17:47,440 --> 01:17:51,520
like, what's everybody's pace?
And I'm like, look, I just want
1501
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:55,360
to finish like I don't care if I
finish last.
1502
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:59,400
So my thing now is my race, my
pace.
1503
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:03,920
I the Marine Corps Marathon, you
have to hit a 14 minute at
1504
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:08,080
least.
I'm, I'm, I'm, I, I can do that.
1505
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:12,880
And what's crazy is it doesn't
matter if I'm running 2 miles or
1506
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:15,720
9 miles, my mile time is the
same.
1507
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:17,720
No, but that's good though.
But I love.
1508
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,240
Your attitude though, that's
awesome.
1509
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:23,440
See my my see now my mindset for
running changed after I broke my
1510
01:18:23,440 --> 01:18:26,480
foot because before that I was
trying to get to 145 half.
1511
01:18:26,720 --> 01:18:29,720
Which was that guy?
Which but to, but to me that,
1512
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:34,920
that for being over 50, to run a
half marathon in an hour and 45
1513
01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:37,880
minutes, to me was like, that's
and I got to 1:48 and then, and
1514
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:39,960
then when the foot really got
bad and that was it.
1515
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,280
Because then I ran the, the
Vegas half and then it's just
1516
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:45,200
from there on, I was in the boot
and, and, and for bills.
1517
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:49,240
You don't know people that are
in fantastic cardio shape. 8
1518
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:52,560
months takes all of that away.
I don't care what you cause
1519
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:54,760
cardio's different things.
Cardio's not just running, it's,
1520
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:58,920
it's biking, it's, it's the, the
rowing machine, it's elliptical,
1521
01:18:59,360 --> 01:19:03,440
it's the Stairmaster.
You can do cardio with different
1522
01:19:03,440 --> 01:19:05,280
kinds of weights.
You can do cardio can be doing
1523
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:08,760
leg day and, and doing goblet
squats and sumo squats and leg
1524
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:10,880
press and leg growth.
I mean, because as long as your,
1525
01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:14,240
your heart rate's elevated and
you're sucking for air, that's
1526
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,560
cardio.
So it doesn't have to just be
1527
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,160
running, which I didn't know
until I got in the boot.
1528
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,520
Then I'm like, wow, what the
hell am I going to do with this?
1529
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:24,400
Right?
Because I'm not allowed to run
1530
01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:26,560
and I can't put the boot on the
row or I can't put the boot on
1531
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:28,600
the bike.
So then it was all upper body
1532
01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:31,320
cardio when I was using TI Rex
straps and stuff, and you know
1533
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:33,680
what I mean?
So I still was able to maintain
1534
01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:38,800
a certain level of cardio.
But even before that, when we
1535
01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:40,840
just thought it was a neuroma
and I was having problems with
1536
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:44,120
then all I was doing was biking
and I was afraid biking on a
1537
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:47,760
stationary bicycle wasn't going
to have the same impact at
1538
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:50,200
running.
Oh my God, when I was able to
1539
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:57,280
run again, I was faster and was
in better cardio shape per SE,
1540
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:02,520
because it's it was so much
harder to maintain the the the
1541
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:05,720
same kind of level on a bike
doing, you know, 1516 gear on a
1542
01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:07,880
bike.
And because it was orange
1543
01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:11,160
theory, it's up and down, you
know, push paste all out me.
1544
01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,880
That blew my mind.
It just totally blew my mind
1545
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,080
that cardio is everything.
It's not just running down the
1546
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:18,760
street for for people that
understand that it is anything
1547
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,760
that you get your heart pump and
get you sucking for air, that's
1548
01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:22,600
cardio.
Whether?
1549
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:25,400
Anything that gets your heart
rate elevated for sure, yeah.
1550
01:20:25,480 --> 01:20:27,320
Right, right.
So that's like what you alluded
1551
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,800
to Alicia, like you, you, you
know, the different things
1552
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:33,040
you're doing cardio wise, it
still helps the end game.
1553
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:36,800
And when you when when you train
for marathons and half
1554
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:40,040
marathons, you can do all kinds
of workouts that do that, which
1555
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:42,800
I mean, because you do CrossFit,
you can do regular just
1556
01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,160
weightlifting, you can do
regular core stuff, you can do
1557
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:47,320
regular running, you can walk,
you can jog.
1558
01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:48,920
I mean, there's so many
different things that benefit
1559
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:51,920
you and it and it works out the
other muscles that you don't
1560
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:55,400
realize will be a benefit when
you're running, which is when
1561
01:20:55,480 --> 01:20:57,520
the whole bike thing for that.
And really I was like, holy
1562
01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,640
shit, this is amazing.
I didn't lose a step running on
1563
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:01,520
the bike.
I lost, I lost all kinds of
1564
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:04,000
steps being in the boot because,
you know, there was absolutely
1565
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:09,040
no traditional cardio, but the
bike totally did not, did not
1566
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,880
derail my my fitness level.
From a running standpoint, it
1567
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:13,800
actually made it that much
better, which was surprising.
1568
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:15,280
Nice.
Yeah.
1569
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:20,480
It's it's so funny when I run
the first mile, I want to like,
1570
01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:22,120
die.
It's so does Nikki.
1571
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:23,840
So does Nikki.
She talks to herself the whole
1572
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:24,760
time.
This is stupid.
1573
01:21:24,760 --> 01:21:26,160
I don't want to do this.
Yes.
1574
01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,160
Why am I doing?
Like what the hell is wrong with
1575
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:29,640
me?
I have to stop.
1576
01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:32,480
I can't breathe.
And I'm like, you are breathing,
1577
01:21:32,480 --> 01:21:35,160
your lungs are moving air and
it's like I have to stop.
1578
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:36,760
My legs hurt.
No, your legs don't hurt.
1579
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:42,960
So I actually got the pep talk
app and I'll listen to like like
1580
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:45,920
David Goggins and.
He's great.
1581
01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:47,840
Yes.
I love that dude.
1582
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,160
I've followed him on Instagram
for years.
1583
01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:54,040
I heard him on Rogan the first
time and I'm like, he's just one
1584
01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:56,760
of those people that is
infectious now.
1585
01:21:56,760 --> 01:21:58,640
He really makes me feel like a
piece of shit.
1586
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:03,160
He may be every day because this
guy takes a picture and she'll
1587
01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:07,120
tell you he takes a picture of
his watch at like 4:30 in the
1588
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,840
morning and he's like, I'm up
doing whatever.
1589
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:11,280
What are you doing?
You know he's.
1590
01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:15,560
That guy, he's that guy.
And literally he has gotten me
1591
01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:19,440
out of bed several mornings when
I've had to go run because I
1592
01:22:19,440 --> 01:22:22,320
just hear him playing in my
head.
1593
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:27,480
But but yeah, that's a great app
at like 40 minutes on the stair
1594
01:22:27,480 --> 01:22:29,320
stepper.
I'm listening to those.
1595
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:32,200
I'm listening to people the
whole time, giving me
1596
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,160
motivation.
That's awesome.
1597
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:35,440
Yeah, Nick is the same with
running.
1598
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:38,480
I I have the mindset with
running that finished stronger
1599
01:22:38,480 --> 01:22:42,040
than you started.
So if if my like our first smile
1600
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:44,440
forever and ever and ever was
always in the 10 minute range
1601
01:22:44,440 --> 01:22:46,320
because again, Nick is like you,
I don't want to run.
1602
01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:48,760
Yeah.
You know, and I get behind her
1603
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,000
and I'm like, you got to run
because I'm behind you, you
1604
01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:52,520
know?
But I think it's important for
1605
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:55,760
people to understand that that's
what you replaced your addiction
1606
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:58,080
with.
So your mindset about running,
1607
01:22:58,440 --> 01:23:01,280
you know, I, I'm going to tease
him about it, but he knows that
1608
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:05,200
I know you know, it's like when
I say he's one of those guys,
1609
01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:07,480
it's like I think like you do
Alicia.
1610
01:23:07,480 --> 01:23:10,280
I see these people on Facebook
and even David Goggins.
1611
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,600
I'm like, I could never keep up
with that anyway because I don't
1612
01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:15,320
understand that mentality,
right?
1613
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:19,480
I understand Chris's mentality
towards running because that's
1614
01:23:19,480 --> 01:23:23,440
what he does to keep himself on
the straight and narrow as far
1615
01:23:23,440 --> 01:23:26,360
as my mind, my body, my spirit
is healthy, right?
1616
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,080
I can appreciate that like
there's no tomorrow.
1617
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:32,560
So I get it.
The other people that do it, I'm
1618
01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:35,640
I guess I can appreciate where
Nikki's coming from.
1619
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:38,800
I would be doing the same thing.
What?
1620
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:42,040
This is so stupid.
But the difference and one of
1621
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:43,840
the main things which is cool
about you doing the Marine Corps
1622
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:46,800
Marathon that's in it's in
Washington, DC for those that
1623
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:50,640
don't know you actually, you
Arlington Cemetery, all the, all
1624
01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,960
the really cool, cool.
But you know, all the sites that
1625
01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:56,040
you want to see in Washington,
you're running through and, and
1626
01:23:56,040 --> 01:23:58,360
you're part of that.
You run with with with veterans,
1627
01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:01,400
You run with active duty
members, you run.
1628
01:24:01,400 --> 01:24:04,000
I don't know if they're they did
it before the you run through
1629
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:06,960
the 1st responders fallen, you
know a.
1630
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:08,960
Memory Mile.
Yeah, memory mile.
1631
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:11,200
Yeah, I'm hoping my dad's
picture is going to be on that.
1632
01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:14,320
That would be cool.
So, so it's, it's a really, it's
1633
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:18,320
a really humbling race because
number one, it's it's massive,
1634
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:22,920
but #2 you, you look to your
left at one point in time, you
1635
01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:25,840
have, you have a Marine running
full gear with a rock on.
1636
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:29,040
And it's like, yeah, be kidding
me, this guy's passing me, you
1637
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:30,240
know what I'm doing?
9 minute mile.
1638
01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:33,640
And he's like, OK, it's just,
it's very humbling.
1639
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:35,840
It's, it's, it's, it's an
amazing race And they have
1640
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:37,840
everything.
They have 510K, half marathon
1641
01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:40,120
and full marathon.
So if you've never done 1 and
1642
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,240
you want to do want to be a part
of that environment, I highly
1643
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,640
suggest that we would have, if
we went this year, it would have
1644
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:46,840
been our fifth time.
But we just, we just because the
1645
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:48,160
next thing we just got to bow
out.
1646
01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:51,680
But it's and it's an amazing
event.
1647
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,000
We the whole weekend you stay
and have, I mean, it's just
1648
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:55,440
really cool.
So if you've never done it, boys
1649
01:24:55,440 --> 01:24:56,720
and girls are listening and
you're a runner.
1650
01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,760
Marine Corps Marathon, it's
mcm.com, I think is the thing.
1651
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:02,320
Go check it out.
It's it's definitely something
1652
01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:03,840
to do bucket list wise for a
runner.
1653
01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:06,920
Yep, and this year they're doing
it a little bit different this
1654
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:09,000
year because it's the Marine
Corps 250th.
1655
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:12,520
Birthday.
Marine Corps Marathon 50th Every
1656
01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:14,520
entry is a marathon entry this
year.
1657
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:17,400
Right, which is why it's a drag
that we're not that we have to
1658
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,080
bow out because that thing, it's
like.
1659
01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:21,840
Yeah.
So I think next year it'll go
1660
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:24,600
back to the five.
Oh, OK. 510K half, yeah.
1661
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:27,240
Yeah.
So yeah, I'm excited.
1662
01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:32,400
I've been, I've been training.
I've I'm starting to not hate
1663
01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:34,080
running quite as much.
Yeah.
1664
01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:37,080
Well, see, The thing is once you
once you train for it and then
1665
01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:40,160
you do the the full, you're
gonna you're gonna find yourself
1666
01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:41,880
in the couple weeks I need to go
for a run.
1667
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:47,080
Yeah, yeah, that's, I hope so.
I've I'm doing 1/2 in June to
1668
01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:49,040
see where I'm at.
Where's the half at?
1669
01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:51,000
Long Beach, OK.
Good.
1670
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:52,600
I was going to say, hopefully
not in Arizona.
1671
01:25:53,040 --> 01:25:56,600
No, it's in Long Beach, but I
and I keep I keep learning
1672
01:25:56,600 --> 01:25:58,200
valuable lessons.
I posted about this.
1673
01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:01,880
I don't know if you saw it.
It was my seven mile run a few
1674
01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:06,200
weeks back and I started out and
I got to a mile and my hair tie
1675
01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:09,960
broke.
So then you know, it's it's in
1676
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:12,040
the morning.
It was still kind of warm and I
1677
01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:14,600
don't have a hair tie for my
hair for the next 6 miles.
1678
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:18,000
So like, all right, I got a
carious fair with me from now
1679
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:20,120
on.
Nikki has all kinds of things in
1680
01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:22,160
her camel pack.
She has Chapstick, she has
1681
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,280
Kleenex, she has about $20 in
cash.
1682
01:26:24,880 --> 01:26:29,560
She has several, her ties, band
aids, little Advil, Tylenol, you
1683
01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:30,760
know, because you, you don't
know.
1684
01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:33,760
And when you're off, when you're
off running, like you have your
1685
01:26:33,760 --> 01:26:36,680
phone because it fits in our
camel packs, but that's it.
1686
01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:41,040
Like you, you have nothing else.
And you know, it's kind of
1687
01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:44,120
you're, you're purposely
isolating yourself regardless of
1688
01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:47,360
where you're running, because if
you're on a trail, well, you're
1689
01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:48,680
still on a trail.
It's not like you could turn
1690
01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:50,520
around.
Oh, there's a Circle K you may
1691
01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:51,960
have passed through OK two hours
ago.
1692
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:56,320
So, you know, that's the thing.
So when you train, be mindful of
1693
01:26:56,320 --> 01:26:59,560
that, those trails where you
have the areas where you can hit
1694
01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,080
a QT because you know.
Yeah.
1695
01:27:02,280 --> 01:27:04,200
It sucks having to pee when
you're running and there's
1696
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:06,120
nowhere inside to pee for a
woman.
1697
01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:09,160
See men like Oh Tree.
You know, yeah.
1698
01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:13,080
I'm good, but women?
Yeah, that happened last week
1699
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:18,360
and I was like, OK, I can get to
repairing.
1700
01:27:18,360 --> 01:27:20,760
Is it called Reserve I?
I was.
1701
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:23,720
Like I know there's a bathroom.
There, I think I'm close enough
1702
01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:26,520
I can get there or I can turn
around and go back home, but I
1703
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:28,040
made it to the reserve and use
the.
1704
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:30,920
Bathroom there, yeah, there's
that, There's you running on
1705
01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:34,600
that, that that canal system,
Yes, the one that starts like we
1706
01:27:34,600 --> 01:27:36,760
used to start it from Arizona
Ave. and Riggs and take it all
1707
01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:39,120
the way to Freestone Park.
Yeah, it goes far.
1708
01:27:39,160 --> 01:27:40,360
Yeah, it's awesome.
I learned.
1709
01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:42,160
I learned that it actually goes
farther than that.
1710
01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:45,000
But we've just when we were
running for our races, we would
1711
01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:48,080
take from the rigs in in Arizona
and we go to my office at at
1712
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:52,040
Bourke St. and baseline.
How far is that for people who
1713
01:27:52,040 --> 01:27:55,720
are listening?
I want to say that's that's
1714
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:58,440
pretty.
I want to say 10 miles at least.
1715
01:27:58,440 --> 01:28:00,280
There you go.
At least.
1716
01:28:00,400 --> 01:28:03,680
If not, yeah, because because I
would stock the fridge, we would
1717
01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:06,360
put, we would put little goo in
the fridge because my office was
1718
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:09,280
there and I had a code.
So Gatorade little goo min a
1719
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:10,880
point and then run back the
other direction.
1720
01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:15,920
Yeah, I've discovered if I start
at my house, I can run to the
1721
01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:19,160
reserve and then hit the canal
and I can do as many miles as I.
1722
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:20,600
Want.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1723
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:23,680
It's like I just have to be
mindful that it is like 2 1/2
1724
01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:25,320
three miles back to my house,
so.
1725
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:26,160
Right, right.
See.
1726
01:28:26,320 --> 01:28:28,560
And that's where, that's where
Nikki helps me with the math
1727
01:28:28,560 --> 01:28:30,320
because we'll be like going to
go run 6 miles.
1728
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:32,040
I'm like, OK, we're going to run
out to, you know?
1729
01:28:32,160 --> 01:28:34,840
Yeah, he's going to run 6 miles
in One Direction.
1730
01:28:35,160 --> 01:28:35,880
Right.
Yeah, exactly.
1731
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:37,480
She's.
Like, no, we got to turn around.
1732
01:28:37,480 --> 01:28:39,320
Well, because I like to do a
half mile cooldown.
1733
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:41,960
So then I'll say something and
should be like, yeah, no, we
1734
01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:44,040
went go this far.
In turn I'm like, oh, OK,
1735
01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:47,640
Because if it was up to me, we'd
have like a mile and a half cool
1736
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:50,280
down and you know, that's just
not her.
1737
01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:52,920
So and we haven't, we really
haven't run in about a month
1738
01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:55,680
which sucks but I replace it
with just pushing weights and
1739
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:58,640
stuff.
I do like that Strava app.
1740
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:02,400
Yeah, Strava's cool.
We were Strava forever now.
1741
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:04,120
And then we went.
Then I went to Garmin.
1742
01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:06,800
I had a Nike, Nike watch when we
first started running.
1743
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:08,560
And then I finally got a Garmin,
OK.
1744
01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:11,360
And then so I kind of bounced
out of the Strava because I
1745
01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:13,040
mean, how many running apps do I
need, you know?
1746
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,360
Right, right, right.
What does that do for you?
1747
01:29:15,400 --> 01:29:19,840
For somebody that doesn't run.
What was that Strava app?
1748
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:21,720
Yeah.
What does the Strava app do for
1749
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:25,360
you?
Well for me, I make my routes so
1750
01:29:25,440 --> 01:29:29,920
I I'm like OK, I need to know 10
miles from my house what what is
1751
01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:32,240
the route?
And it'll either show you routes
1752
01:29:32,240 --> 01:29:34,400
that have already been made, or
you can make your own.
1753
01:29:34,680 --> 01:29:37,920
Yeah, like I've, I had, I had
routes I saved in Strava as we
1754
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:40,120
were training for things.
I would say I don't know if they
1755
01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:43,040
come, if they go public or not,
but I would, I would save
1756
01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:45,320
different little things we did
to just, you know, then I could
1757
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:47,920
go, let's go run this today.
And then what about?
1758
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:50,400
Yep.
And then what I do before I go
1759
01:29:50,400 --> 01:29:53,240
run, I send the route to Patrick
just in case.
1760
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:56,120
Oh, because you run by yourself.
Yeah.
1761
01:29:56,600 --> 01:29:58,400
OK, that's good thinking.
Good thinking.
1762
01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:00,840
But of course, you're you're a
badass, so I dare anybody to try
1763
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:03,280
to stop her on the trail.
You're going to get your ass
1764
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:04,200
kicked.
She.
1765
01:30:04,360 --> 01:30:08,520
Did not give up an entire
suitcase of no pharmaceuticals
1766
01:30:08,520 --> 01:30:11,160
to the Ugandan government
people, right, you're in.
1767
01:30:11,480 --> 01:30:14,040
Trouble.
What I didn't tell you guys is I
1768
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:16,360
actually trained Krav Maga in
Israel.
1769
01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:17,280
So.
Oh.
1770
01:30:17,360 --> 01:30:21,120
Right on.
We really are a badass, yeah.
1771
01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:24,800
Yeah, so I was actually supposed
to be there last week and had to
1772
01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:28,800
delay my training.
So I'll be going probably in the
1773
01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:31,040
fall, to do another training.
There you go.
1774
01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:31,640
All right.
Well.
1775
01:30:31,640 --> 01:30:33,840
That's one thing.
That's one thing that I always
1776
01:30:33,840 --> 01:30:37,320
like that Rogan talks about on
his podcast is nowadays you got
1777
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:38,880
to be careful.
You don't know what woman you're
1778
01:30:38,880 --> 01:30:40,320
running into.
That's true.
1779
01:30:40,520 --> 01:30:43,640
You might, you might run into a
Ronda Rousey that nobody knows
1780
01:30:43,640 --> 01:30:45,920
about just because she didn't
pursue it, right?
1781
01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:48,480
But she might be a Brazilian
black belt.
1782
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:52,480
Yep, Yep Chris, can I make 2
quick plugs?
1783
01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:56,920
Absolutely.
All right, this is the empowered
1784
01:30:56,920 --> 01:30:59,920
nurse.
This is my first ever book that
1785
01:31:00,320 --> 01:31:01,120
congratulations.
On.
1786
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:02,800
Amazon.
Nice.
1787
01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:06,280
And then it's really just about,
you know, burnout is so bad in
1788
01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:08,240
nursing.
So it's just about getting back
1789
01:31:08,240 --> 01:31:11,640
into why you got into nursing.
And then a plug for Patrick.
1790
01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:14,800
This is his book.
Right on, Where'd it go?
1791
01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:17,120
That's awesome.
It's part of a series, so this
1792
01:31:17,120 --> 01:31:18,840
is the first one.
Right on.
1793
01:31:18,960 --> 01:31:21,120
What's this about?
What's the synopsis of it?
1794
01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:30,160
Oh, I haven't read.
I'm.
1795
01:31:30,320 --> 01:31:33,200
Going to but I've just got too
much going on right now.
1796
01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:36,280
You don't say.
Since we're since we're dropping
1797
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:39,240
books, this is my book that I
wrote a couple years ago.
1798
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:41,960
It's called the Legend of
Charles Lee Lang OK, cool.
1799
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,080
It's based on a true story
because I used to go up every
1800
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:45,680
January work with his name is
Chuck.
1801
01:31:45,680 --> 01:31:47,160
I used to work on his cattle
ranch.
1802
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:51,200
And then finally at one point in
time he had asked we had a
1803
01:31:51,200 --> 01:31:56,160
conversation when when we were
going riding out, it went to a
1804
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:57,680
dark side.
He's like, hey, when I die, man,
1805
01:31:57,680 --> 01:31:59,240
I don't want to be buried in the
cemetery.
1806
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:01,680
I want to be buried in the open
fields and mountains so I can
1807
01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:04,640
sew.
That's that's it's, it's based
1808
01:32:04,640 --> 01:32:07,200
on a true concept, but the whole
thing's made-up.
1809
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:09,960
But so what's on his Amazon as
well?
1810
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:11,840
That was my.
That was my third my. 3rd I
1811
01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:15,280
don't have a book this.
This is my book right here.
1812
01:32:15,440 --> 01:32:17,720
This is book.
This is as much writing as I'm
1813
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:19,520
going to do.
I just, I just figure we're
1814
01:32:19,520 --> 01:32:21,200
busting out books.
I'd you know, I'd share.
1815
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:24,160
Of course.
So again, boys and girls, this
1816
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:26,240
is Alicia Shields.
She's an amazing human.
1817
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:29,120
We'll have all her information
on the Instagram, Facebook, and
1818
01:32:29,120 --> 01:32:31,560
YouTube.
Mike puts these all together
1819
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:32,920
once we're done.
So there's gonna probably be
1820
01:32:32,920 --> 01:32:35,800
about 1520 shorts that we can
share with you.
1821
01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:38,920
So then you can put those
everywhere on your stuff that
1822
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:40,800
will talk about all of the
nuances of what you do.
1823
01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:43,480
She's misses Arizona, she's
trying to be Misses USA.
1824
01:32:44,000 --> 01:32:47,000
She works with Veterans Without
Orders, which is a fantastic
1825
01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:52,800
nonprofit organization that goes
around the world to empower
1826
01:32:53,200 --> 01:32:56,720
other countries on so many
different levels, and she has
1827
01:32:56,920 --> 01:32:59,640
Box Out.
Box out and box out project.
1828
01:32:59,800 --> 01:33:03,360
Box out is a is a boxing gym
she's a a part owner of and
1829
01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:07,120
Chandler and Box out project
helps empower veterans, women
1830
01:33:07,120 --> 01:33:10,520
and at youth at youth kids that
risk kids.
1831
01:33:10,520 --> 01:33:13,240
Is that OK?
So yeah, anything you want to
1832
01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:15,040
learn about Alicia Shields,
that's going to be on the show.
1833
01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:18,640
Mike and I always wrap this
stuff up with, you know, if
1834
01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:19,840
you're hit, don't let the bad
days win.
1835
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:23,720
Somebody Loves You.
Reach out, talk to someone if
1836
01:33:23,720 --> 01:33:26,080
you're if you're depressed, if
you're sad, if you're just
1837
01:33:26,080 --> 01:33:28,240
confused, whatever the case may
be, tomorrow is always going to
1838
01:33:28,240 --> 01:33:30,840
be a better day.
So to be don't be that person.
1839
01:33:30,840 --> 01:33:33,040
That leaves avoiding somebody's
heart because you just didn't
1840
01:33:33,040 --> 01:33:36,120
have a conversation with them,
right?
1841
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:38,800
Any anything you want to wrap up
with Alicia?
1842
01:33:40,640 --> 01:33:42,880
I I appreciate you having me on
here.
1843
01:33:42,880 --> 01:33:45,720
It was awesome.
It was a lot of fun.
1844
01:33:46,360 --> 01:33:48,520
Thanks for letting me get all
that information out.
1845
01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:52,520
And if anyone's interested in
volunteering or finding out more
1846
01:33:52,520 --> 01:33:55,440
about any of the awesome
organizations we talked about,
1847
01:33:55,440 --> 01:33:58,720
please reach out to me because
we would loved.
1848
01:33:58,720 --> 01:34:01,400
I'd love to talk more about the
organizations so.
1849
01:34:01,400 --> 01:34:03,640
Well, we can have you back on.
We can have that as much as you
1850
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:05,000
want.
And we just, we can just focus
1851
01:34:05,000 --> 01:34:07,880
one day on on veterans without
orders and talk about all the
1852
01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:10,720
stuff you do there.
So that's the thing about us.
1853
01:34:10,720 --> 01:34:12,160
We don't have an agenda.
We don't.
1854
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:13,840
We don't.
Have you want to do a whole show
1855
01:34:13,840 --> 01:34:16,000
on that?
Just get with Chris and we'll do
1856
01:34:16,000 --> 01:34:17,320
a whole show on just that.
Yeah.
1857
01:34:17,320 --> 01:34:18,520
Cool.
Yeah, I'll have the.
1858
01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:22,400
I'm all about the veterans, too.
Yeah, Yeah, that would be, that
1859
01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:26,800
would be fantastic because
again, we're all about helping
1860
01:34:26,800 --> 01:34:29,880
everybody else's stuff grow and
be and be brought to the
1861
01:34:29,880 --> 01:34:31,880
forefront because you know, it's
networking.
1862
01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:35,280
It's it's a different brand of
networking, but I didn't know
1863
01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:37,760
about better than other orders
until you just told me.
1864
01:34:37,760 --> 01:34:39,840
I knew you the other stuff you
did right, But then you're like,
1865
01:34:39,840 --> 01:34:41,680
Oh, I don't do that anymore.
I didn't I knew you were I
1866
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:43,760
didn't know you were a real part
over a box out, but I knew you
1867
01:34:43,760 --> 01:34:47,120
were a boxing right, So I knew
you were legit.
1868
01:34:47,120 --> 01:34:51,080
I didn't know you're a bad ass.
So you are I'm like legit.
1869
01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:52,760
You're a truly human, amazing
human.
1870
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,520
I mean, I liked you and your
family before, but you just you
1871
01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:58,600
went up a notch with this stuff
because it's it's selflessness
1872
01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:04,120
and there's so many people don't
do enough to help others.
1873
01:35:04,120 --> 01:35:07,720
And I think that's sad because
you get so much of you get so
1874
01:35:07,720 --> 01:35:11,520
much for food for your soul when
you're helping other people and
1875
01:35:11,520 --> 01:35:14,360
and you know, you're teaching
people how to fish
1876
01:35:14,480 --> 01:35:18,000
theoretically, so they know how
to take care of themselves for
1877
01:35:18,000 --> 01:35:19,400
decades at a time with the
water.
1878
01:35:19,400 --> 01:35:21,040
That's amazing.
And the water thing is
1879
01:35:21,040 --> 01:35:22,960
sawyer.com.
So if you guys didn't catch that
1880
01:35:22,960 --> 01:35:26,800
part of show Sawyer, like
thomassawyer.com really cool
1881
01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:29,720
products about how to filter
water that doesn't work for the
1882
01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:31,600
ocean.
But all the other you know, you
1883
01:35:31,760 --> 01:35:33,960
I I I pulled it up while we were
talking about it too.
1884
01:35:34,440 --> 01:35:37,240
There's a picture, I don't know
if it's from one of your
1885
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:40,200
adventures, but a bunch of
buckets lined up in a row and it
1886
01:35:40,200 --> 01:35:42,600
looked like 1/3 a third world
country, right?
1887
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:45,120
I don't want to say this, but
and they all had their little
1888
01:35:45,120 --> 01:35:48,760
things going out and and kids.
I mean, it's so it's it's
1889
01:35:48,760 --> 01:35:50,920
amazing, amazing stuff that you
do Alicia, amazing.
1890
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:53,120
You should you should go take go
take a nap.
1891
01:35:53,400 --> 01:35:55,440
OK.
I think I might.
1892
01:35:56,080 --> 01:35:58,760
You deserve it.
Eat my rice cakes and take a nap
1893
01:35:58,760 --> 01:36:01,080
there.
You go and tell Patrick and the
1894
01:36:01,080 --> 01:36:03,640
kids I said hello and then we'll
definitely have you back on
1895
01:36:03,640 --> 01:36:05,040
again.
Love to have you have more of
1896
01:36:05,040 --> 01:36:07,000
your story, especially with the
other stuff that you do with.
1897
01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:08,640
From a volunteering standpoint,
it's fantastic.
1898
01:36:08,640 --> 01:36:10,120
It was awesome to meet you for
sure.
1899
01:36:10,400 --> 01:36:12,360
Thank you for coming on and
doing this and getting your
1900
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:15,880
message out there and whatever
message, whatever links you want
1901
01:36:15,880 --> 01:36:19,560
as far as those messages for
this one, just drop them in the
1902
01:36:20,400 --> 01:36:22,520
link that we have.
To e-mail me e-mail, shoot me an
1903
01:36:22,520 --> 01:36:24,800
e-mail today when we're done,
e-mail me everything that you
1904
01:36:24,800 --> 01:36:26,720
that you talked about.
So then when Mike puts it all
1905
01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:30,080
together.
I'll drop those links on Spotify
1906
01:36:30,080 --> 01:36:34,440
and he can drop them on YouTube.
And actually yours will when I
1907
01:36:34,440 --> 01:36:37,360
drop it, it'll go to anywhere an
RSS feed goes to.
1908
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:41,920
So Apple, Amazon, Spotify.
So whichever ones you want in
1909
01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:44,800
there, just send them to Chris
and I'll include him in the
1910
01:36:44,800 --> 01:36:46,360
final post.
So thank you again.
1911
01:36:46,360 --> 01:36:48,320
I really appreciate it was
amazing to meet you.
1912
01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:51,440
Nice to nice to meet you Mike.
Nice to see you again, Chris.
1913
01:36:51,800 --> 01:36:54,400
You as well have a great day.
You too.
1914
01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:56,720
Love you guys.
Love you too.
1915
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:14,840
The place where you will go
behind your eyes.
1916
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:25,080
Take a moment, look until you
see it.
1917
01:37:25,080 --> 01:37:37,720
Fight your bail and see your
boss weird.
1918
01:37:39,120 --> 01:39:05,360
Fight your battle.
Now you're coming.
1919
01:39:05,400 --> 01:39:08,760
Come down here.
Yeah, we found out he didn't see
1920
01:39:09,400 --> 01:39:12,480
his sand.
You can fuck and fight him.
1921
01:39:13,320 --> 01:39:16,200
Wait for the dead.
Or when he's.
1922
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:20,160
Closer out here.
But in the wind he went.
1923
01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:25,680
No quizzes, we'll play, inspire
and make sure you press on the
1924
01:39:26,040 --> 01:39:29,240
almighty day.
You got a dream.
1925
01:39:30,360 --> 01:39:37,040
Who in your life to keep our
soul in every day?
1926
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:42,280
Take the trail behind your eyes.
Feel the soul revolution.
1927
01:39:51,960 --> 01:39:56,760
Yeah, take a moment.
Look where you see it.
1928
01:39:58,000 --> 01:40:00,640
Fight your family to you.
More clear.
1929
01:40:26,270 --> 01:40:30,990
You gotta, You gotta.
You gotta, you gotta, you gotta.